How to comfort lovelorn people?

First, guide the other person to cry heartily.

It's not good if the other person is uncomfortable sitting there and wants to cry but tries to hold back. At this time, you might as well accompany him to KTV to sing sad love songs or drink with each other, so that they can vent their emotions, because if they can't vent their lovelorn emotions, they will accumulate in their hearts and may lead to depression.

Second, use examples around you to inspire each other.

When the other person is in a slightly relaxed mood, you can enlighten the other person with examples around you, such as who broke up with whom last week, or who can't go with whom for any reason, which makes the other person feel that he is not the only one who is lovelorn. There are so many people like him, why should I suffer? Why am I the one who is sad about being lovelorn? These doubts and pains will gradually ease. Third, pass positive energy.

Most lovelorn people are gray, lifeless and confused about the future. As a good friend, you can actively comfort her, encourage her and let him know that there are many beautiful things in life. Life must stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating, forgetting promises and letting go of everything.

Fourth, constantly affirm each other.

Many people often lose self-esteem and have no confidence in themselves after falling in love. At this time, we can talk to her as if nothing has happened, and then occasionally praise her for not pretending to be strong. When the other party mentions something specific, give the other party affirmation and praise in time, recognize the other party, and let the other party know that breaking up is not the reason why she is poor.

V. Empathy

Falling out of love means the disintegration of intimate relationship, and they will feel extremely lonely, and they need the company of friends most at this time. If you have time to spend with him, you will definitely help him through the difficult stage of lovelorn. In addition, talking about their lovelorn experiences and feelings can also help them eliminate loneliness, or lend them a shoulder to rely on, and can also soothe their lovelorn and injured feelings.