Is Wu Dalang disliked because he is poor and ugly? Why is Jinlian angry with Song Wu?

In the story of Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian was originally Wu Dalang's wife, but later she fell in love with Song Wu. After being rejected, she became sulky. Originally, she was resigned, but she accidentally hit Ximen Qing with a fork, which caused a lot of trouble.

Readers have heard that in the eyes of Song Wu and others, Wu Dalang is an honest man who doesn't make trouble and saves trouble. However, Pan Jinlian doesn't think so. She revealed the essence of the so-called honest man.

Song Wu said, "My brother has never done his duty, unlike Song Wu." The woman smiled and said, "How come it's the other way around! As the saying goes: people who are not strong will not live long. My life is very fast. I don't like people who don't look back after three dozen, and I don't like people who turn around after four dozen. "

Yes, the essence of men's honesty is actually cowardice and incompetence. Is there anything wrong with Pan Jinlian's saying that "a man is strong and can't last long"? How weak and incompetent is Wu Dalang?

In the story of Jin Ping Mei, Wu Dalang didn't live long anywhere. Before he married Pan Jinlian, it was already such a state of life. Wu Dalang starved to death his ex-wife, and his daughter Yinger was neglected.

Is Wu Dalang later selling baked wheat cake capital, or a big family to him, Wu Dalang later lived in the house, also with the dowry of Pan Jinlian, you know, it's a patriarchal society.

Wu Dalang settled down entirely by Pan Jinlian's family. At this point, Song Wu is not ignorant. He used the phrase "strong appearance is not as good as strong inside" to stimulate Pan Jinlian. He said to the woman:

"Sister-in-law is a good man, Song Wu need not say more. My brother is very simple and totally depends on his sister-in-law. As the saying goes, appearance is better than inner strength, and my sister-in-law has a family. What is my brother worried about? Haven't you heard the old saying: dogs can't get into the fence. "

They all say "marry Han, dress and eat". What can Pan Jinlian do for Wu Dalang? Can a man who can't even support his family be considered a good man? Did Pan Jinlian follow him, live honestly, and then wait to starve to death?

The most interesting thing is that Song Wu worried that Pan Jinlian had a crush on another man and said that "dogs can't go to prison". Since Pan Jinlian married Wu Dalang, the only man who secretly loves him is not another man, but Song Wu. Is the dog in Song Wu's mouth self-comparing?

In the story of Jin Ping Mei, Wu Dalang was rejected by Pan Jinlian. Besides being poor and ugly, the biggest problem is that Wu Dalang is a man without knowledge and opinions. Song Wu just ordered Wu Dalang to say:

"Brother, you don't want to do business, just sit at home. Travel expenses, brother. Send it to you. Don't forget my words and be careful to go home. "

Pan Jinlian was so angry that he said on the spot, "Since you are smart, you can't be a mother. When I first married Wu Da, I never heard much about my brother-in-law. How should I get along? Kiss or not, it's Qiao Jiagong. Of course, it's my bad luck to favor this pile of shit! "

In the story of Jin Ping Mei, Pan Jinlian is Song Wu's eldest sister-in-law, and her eldest sister-in-law is her mother. Song Wu ran to Pan Jinlian's house to watch Pan Jinlian, and let Wu Dalang guard against Pan Jinlian like a thief. Wu Dalang also did as Song Wu said. Who's not angry?