There is a saying that says, "If you love each other enough, you can't be friends after a breakup." Do you think it's right?

I think this sentence is right, because I am such a person. If I really loved the other person at the beginning, then if I continued to be friends with the other person after the separation, it would make me feel particularly awkward and uncomfortable. It will feel awkward and uncomfortable to be friends after a breakup

As long as it is a sincere relationship, when two people first get together, they must be thinking that they must have a good relationship in the future, so here During this period, we will pay a lot for this relationship and make one promise after another. Two people will have a lot of good memories in their daily interactions, and their relationship will become more and more intimate. And when two people break up for some reason, all the previous promises and good memories will become a joke. If such two people continue to contact each other as friends, their relationship with each other will become Very uncomfortable. Just like if two people go out together as friends and pass some scenic spots or restaurants where they were in love before, they will unconsciously think of the days when the two were together, and then compare the current situation. I feel an inexplicable sadness and loss. Broken love itself is a relatively painful thing, and continuing to be friends with the other person after the breakup and continuing to interact will only make our pain longer, and it will take longer to get over this failed relationship. There is no any benefit. We just need to treat our previous relationships in a way that makes us comfortable

Of course, there are certainly couples who can still be friends with each other naturally and without embarrassment after breaking up, and the distance in all aspects can also be controlled. Very good. This is the case with a friend of the opposite sex. After she and her ex-boyfriend broke up, they could still play and go shopping together without feeling uncomfortable at all. It can only be said that feelings vary from person to person. Each of us has our own way of handling it, as long as we handle it in the way that is most comfortable to us.