The old man in the countryside died. Why did the family open the coffin to see the funeral?

At the funeral of an old man in the village, the three sons were so busy that they couldn't bear to part with their old mother. The old man was unhappy and led 10 to make a scene. The scandal soon spread to dozens of miles in Fiona Fang, and the children of the deceased were humiliated.

The old man died at the age of 69 and raised three sons. He was hospitalized for heart disease before his death and needed stent surgery. The three sons are unwilling to pay to save their mother. After repeated persuasion by the township cadres, the sons finally agreed to share the remuneration equally on the condition that they wanted the cheapest medical equipment.

Later, my mother had an operation and needed to take medicine for life. The three sons take turns to support the elderly, and whoever buys medicine is responsible. According to their reasons: "Mother is not alone, so it is natural to take turns to pay for support." The old and sick mother died a year later with the support of her three sons in turn. In fact, it is clear to outsiders that they are not filial, and the old people are sulky and unhappy.

In rural funerals, according to traditional customs, the coffin of the deceased will be opened before the formal funeral. First, let the family members walk around the coffin and take one last look. The second is to observe whether the shroud, shoes and hats in the coffin are completely worn, or whether some etiquette is in place, otherwise there will be disputes and accusations.

The relatives of the elderly are well prepared. After walking around the coffin gloomily, he complained about his untidy clothes, poor cloth and poor coffin material. He accused the kneeling manners of being insincere. The scene was in chaos. The steward hurriedly took the three sons of the deceased to apologize, and the family members insisted that they were forced to go to the city to buy shroud and bury the ghost.

Under the coordination and persuasion of many relatives and village cadres, the coffin was not replaced. The bride's family was exhausted before agreeing to cremation and burial. As a result, they had a good time and didn't pay much attention to each other afterwards. In fact, onlookers know very well that the family of the old man deliberately embarrassed their three sons, embarrassing them and paying the price for not being filial to the old man.

As the saying goes, "my mother is big." At the rural funeral, my mother's uncle was the closest person to the deceased and the one who could speak for her. For a harmonious family, she actively cooperated with the funeral. If the old life is not satisfactory, the mother's family will settle the grievances of the deceased for many years at this time, making their children lose face and become more Japanese.

The farewell ceremony before the old man's funeral is also the time when children are most worried. The dutiful son has misgivings, but he is not afraid. The rebellious son was very nervous, fearing that if someone accidentally caught the old man's family, the funeral would not go smoothly, because the family represented not only the interests of the deceased, but also their attitude towards the funeral, and their right to speak could play the most important role at this time. A little carelessness will lead to unpleasant jokes.

But because they are all close relatives related by blood, under normal circumstances, families with filial children will die, and my uncle's relatives will not make trouble in this case. Most parents are reasonable. Even if individual uncles are no longer secular, they will not have a hard time with their loved ones. After all, there will still be constant relatives in the future. So I seldom see the troubles of my family.

Of course, there are exceptions to everything, and family quarrels occasionally occur, such as discord between husband and wife, unknown cause of death of the deceased, unfilial children before their death, and simple and shabby funeral. The brothers and sisters of the deceased's parents will definitely make a scene and comfort the deceased in extreme ways.

As the old saying goes, the bride's family is an outlet, and filial piety is not filial [yeah]