Why are introverts afraid of others revealing the fact that they are introverts?

The reason he is afraid of being exposed by others is because in his self-perception, he also feels that being introverted is not good.

If he thinks introversion is a good quality, he won't feel bad about it.

To give you an example: In the past, people would think that it was not good to expose a hole in their trousers, and they would be afraid of others making fun of them. They would also be afraid of others saying: Your trousers are torn. The current fashion is to wear ripped jeans. If someone points at you at this time and says: Your pants are torn. Will I be afraid at this time? You won't, but you will laugh at the person who accuses you of being ignorant and not understanding fashion trends.

In the eyes of the public, introverts have the following characteristics, which are also recognized by introverts themselves:

1. Shyness;

In front of strangers , bowing their heads, blushing, talking less, being nervous, etc. They are shy and are often teased. They are afraid that they will not be able to find a partner in the future, and even if they find one, they will not dare to touch them.

2. Not good at communication;

When given the chance to go on stage, he does not dare to go on stage; when pushed on stage, he is nervous and stutters and performs poorly; when given the chance to make new friends, he does not take the initiative ; Others come to you, but you don’t open your heart and talk freely.

3. Not gregarious;

They often live alone, making people feel aloof, aloof, and looking down on others. They don't have many friends. People who want to know them feel that they are too deep and elusive, and sometimes they don't know how to act.

4. No future.

Most people have introverts around them who are still useless and do not do well even though they have been in their thirties. After learning from past mistakes, everyone naturally thinks that they will become that kind of person.

In fact, if everyone knows something about "personality", it will be obvious that a person's personality is either introverted or extroverted. Both introverts and extroverts have their own advantages and disadvantages. shortcoming. When a person's strengths are cultivated and developed, he can grow into a person that impresses everyone.

The so-called big breaks make big ones, small breaks make small ones. If you don’t break, you don’t stand. Everyone needs a chance to wake up. When one day he realizes or is touched and understands that he must change, given time, it will be over if he doesn’t complain. A blockbuster.

Don’t underestimate everyone around you, especially introverts. They may be Guo Jing in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Zhang Xiaofan in "Qingyun Zhi", or Xu Sanduo in "Soldier Assault" , one day their achievements may be beyond your reach.

Introverts themselves must also understand: Don’t overestimate what you can accomplish in one year, and don’t underestimate what you can accomplish in ten years.

I’m not afraid. There’s nothing wrong with being introverted.

Behind introversion, there are also psychological characteristics such as low self-esteem, cowardice, and hesitation.

How does it feel when you are exposed? Do you feel like you have lost your protection, like you are standing naked in front of others?

That's because he regards introversion as his own protective layer to protect his weak heart.

This is not the reason for "introversion", but this sentence triggers the psychological self-defense mechanism.

In order to maintain the stability of their mental state, people will unconsciously hide their inner feelings. Psychological characteristics such as inner inferiority cannot be easily solved, but they have a great impact on a person's life and mental state.

By avoiding others and reducing communication, that is to say, acting very "introverted", you can temporarily avoid suffering from psychological characteristics such as low self-esteem and cowardice.

When others point it out, is it an obvious act of aggression? You may think so, because your protective shield has been breached and all your weaknesses have been exposed. But to others it may be just a casual remark.

So the problem we have to face is not introversion, but the inferiority complex that we don’t want to show behind.

There are many introverted and confident people. I hope you can face the weaknesses in your heart. Keeping escaping is not the answer. You can boldly challenge yourself; you can talk to your friends and express your true feelings; you can also receive formal psychological counseling to resolve the doubts in your heart.

A good attitude is the foundation of a happy life. I hope you can become objective as soon as possible and face challenges head-on.

Introverts spend a long time thinking because they talk less.

The more you think, the more you will understand many things, such as which sentence to say which. One sentence should not say, how to do this thing well, etc. In other words, introverts tend to think a lot, and sometimes they may think too much.