My son doesn't care much about things and has a strong desire to destroy them. What kind of psychology is this?

Often do not cherish things, have a strong desire to destroy. On the surface, it is a bad behavior habit. In fact, children are expressing their bad emotions and negative attitudes.

For the children in the kindergarten class, most of them have learned to express their emotions in a gentle way, without losing their temper, and have a preliminary understanding of the causes of some emotions and can try their best to alleviate them. However, a few children still can't do this and are prone to negative emotions. When they lose their temper, they don't express it in words, but take it out on others or toys and articles.

Some children neither actively seek help nor accept help from others. They are slow to change negative emotions and are not good at changing their emotions and attention with the needs of activities and environment. When this happens to children, adults should not simply prevent children from expressing negative emotions, but try to understand the problems and difficulties encountered by children and guide them to express their inner feelings in the right way.

Children who always lose their temper are often children with poor problem-solving strategies and single expression. They need concrete help and clear guidance very much. Adults can inspire children to look at problems from different angles according to the specific situation, encourage children to observe and learn the ways and means of their peers to solve problems properly, and teach them to solve problems by hand when necessary. Especially for children in large classes, curiosity and self-esteem grow simultaneously. When the ability is insufficient and the self-esteem is strong, children are easy to lose control of their emotions. At this time, it is necessary to guide children to master the correct ways to deal with and solve problems and improve their abilities.

Summary: It's easy for a little boy. Mom can take the children out to vent. Boys love sports and can't be idle. Parents should not keep their children at home, but take them out to play and play some activities that can make them tired, such as playing football, badminton and cycling with their children. At least let your children vent their dissatisfaction. Parents should learn to listen to their children's voices. Everything the children say is not unintentional.