"Don't wash your dirty linen in public", no matter how wronged, you can't just tell these three ugly things to outsiders.

Whenever I encounter troubles, I always want to find a friend to spit it out, so I don't feel uncomfortable. Otherwise, if no one cleans it up, we will easily get a heart attack. Indeed, when you are full of worries, you will feel much more comfortable if you can find someone to talk to.

Even so, we are all adults. We must understand that there is no empathy in the world. The more you talk, the more people will seem to agree with you, but they won't give you much advice. What's more, they will treat your experience as a joke.

To solve this problem, you must untie the bell and the person who tied it. The wisest thing for adults is to digest and resolve by themselves.

As the saying goes: Don't wash your dirty linen in public, there are three things you can't tell outsiders casually, lest others see a joke. Mature people should understand this truth.

When people get along with each other, there will inevitably be friction, not to mention couples who have been together for a long time. Once a small family is formed, the things that couples need to face will become very complicated. Problems such as food, clothing, housing, transportation, children's education, parental support, and mutual views may all become the root causes of contradictions.

Every family has its own problems, and every family has different difficulties and contradictions. Therefore, as a rational adult, you need to understand that you are not the only unfortunate person, and others may have the same problem.

If you tell others about your marital conflict, others may laugh it off and rarely give practical advice. On the contrary, the more you tell your family affairs to outsiders, once the meaning is distorted and spread, it will not help your marriage conflict, and it will only get worse.

My friend Sister Lin and her husband don't have a good relationship, but they still respect each other on the surface. Sister Lin went to a neighbor's house to be a guest, and inadvertently vomited that her husband was busy with entertainment and came home late. As a result, my neighbor misunderstood my husband's philandering outside and staying home all night. The news spread. An unsuspecting neighbor met Sister Lin and comforted her by saying, "Your husband has a woman outside. Let him go and live his own life. " Lin Jie was startled, and how to explain it was of no help.

It is difficult for an honest official to judge family affairs. The best solution to the contradiction between husband and wife is that both husband and wife can solve it together without outsiders.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most tense and difficult to handle. As the saying goes, two tigers are not allowed in one mountain, and two strong women are not allowed in one family. When a daughter-in-law marries her husband's family, it will impact her mother-in-law's position as a mistress. If the mother-in-law does not change her mind, it will easily lead to various contradictions between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Mother-in-law is not a mother, and it is difficult for a daughter-in-law to be as close as a daughter, so the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in most families is still quite prominent.

Although there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at this time, try not to tell outsiders. Imagine what outsiders can do for you. If the mother-in-law talks about her daughter-in-law everywhere, the daughter-in-law also tells outsiders that her mother-in-law is not good here. What's wrong? The two of them are in a stalemate, and outsiders with ulterior motives will take the opportunity to sow discord, which will only worsen your mother-in-law relationship.

There is no need to tell outsiders what to do with the house behind closed doors. As the saying goes, everything at home is prosperous, and the family is declining. If you have a harmonious family and a filial mother, outsiders will not look down on your family, they will envy you from the bottom of their hearts.

Family income is the secret of family members. It is good to know that you earn more and earn less. There is an old saying in China: But unlike people who have been poor together, if a family is not supported by material foundation, many things will fall into endless troubles and difficulties, and the relationship between husband and wife will become very bad.

When your family income is not ideal, will you choose to make money silently or find someone to cry? Some people often tell others that their partners are incompetent, can't make money, and can't even pay their children's tuition. But they never take the initiative to find a solution to the problem.

You know, you always complain that your partner can't make money, others won't give you money, and you will laugh at your experience behind your back. In fact, as an adult, it is good to know how much you earn. There is no need to disclose anything to the public. After all, others don't want you to live better than yourself.

When your family life is difficult, the best way is to strengthen yourself, work more, make more money, try to change the status quo through your own hands and give your family the best quality of life.

Don't wash your dirty linen in public. Even if you are wronged again, don't tell these three things to outsiders casually, which is harmful to you. I hope you all understand.