[What I read with my children] What happened in 70 years.

The American poet Scanlan gilliland wrote in his book Reading Mom:

You are either lucky/find a treasure/a pile of gold/full of jewels.

You are richer than me/I am still rich/I have a loving mother/I study for me.

This is a poem that touched many people. At the moment when I was a new mother, I was firmly hit by this sentence. Coupled with work, I have an indissoluble bond with children's books.

The first book in the crackling series.

Bao Xiao's first set of books should be the "Scratch" series. Children's behavioral habits enlightenment book, and "Baby Bear" series.

The color of "Baby Bear" looks softer. I bought many sets as gifts. The picture is simple and interesting, such as calling hello, I want to poop, etc. Suitable for babies around one year old, the format and binding size of this set of books are very suitable, and the design of rounded corners is very intimate and will not cause harm to children.

Good books for 2-3 years old.

2 "Baby Observation Training: Making Observation a Habit"

This is a set of educational game books produced by Lin Yi's parenting studio. Divided into overall observation, local observation and detailed observation. There are many books of this kind, such as the larger "Great Visual Discovery" series. Putting aside all-round publicity of such books can cultivate children's observation and concentration. The most practical, in fact, this is just to let children have a game to play, and the forms arranged in the book, like playing hide-and-seek with you, almost no children don't like hide-and-seek. This book is about two years old.

Picture Book: Reading and Classics (Paperback Edition)

On the recommendation of a friend, I bought a picture book by Peng Yi: Reading and Classics (paperback edition). The first half of this book is an explanation of how to read picture books, followed by a brief introduction of 65,438+000 classic picture books.

When he was one or two years old, Bao Xiao especially liked to turn over this book. Guess how much I love you, runaway rabbit, hungry caterpillar, hen radish, and so on. A glimpse of many classic picture books. Many mothers buy those picture books from this "guide book". I remember that Bao Xiao had read Miffy Rabbit at that time, so every time I saw the page with Miffy Rabbit, I was very excited, and the last page was torn to pieces. Met the lovely rabbit Mifei, bought Mifei rabbit series picture books, Mifei was at the seaside, Mifei was sick and so on. I remember that at that time, she often painted little rabbit Mifei, cute little rabbit, millet-like eyes and silent mouth, which instantly sprouted the hearts of countless adults and villains.

4 "Friends of Children" series

There is also an unforgettable set of books, such as Friends of Children series, Three Little Pigs, Pulling Radish, Guli and Gula, Little Elephant Walking, Big Hippo and Magic Watercolor, which I have read many times, and the favorite is Little Really Long Hair.

This book is full of imagination. Xiaozhen, who has a little sister's head, imagines her long hair. How long is her hair? She can catch fish, tie cows, hang clothes with a rope, and read 10 books at one go while hanging a clothesline. If it burns like a tree, it can be home to many birds!

I love this book too. Xiao is really optimistic and imaginative. Monochrome and color pictures are interlaced, linking different scenes of reality and imagination together, making the whole picture book full of tension and even having a feeling of stage play. In the questioning of two friends that "ghosts and ghosts can't recover", Xiaozhen has opened up a new world of "another promising village" for us again and again. If I were to recommend a book to my friend's children, Xiaozhen would be my first thought.

5 Mi Fei Rabbit, Tom Rabbit

In picture books, the image of rabbits has always been favored by writers and children. Tom Rabbit is Bao Xiao's second favorite rabbit after Mifei Rabbit. If Mickey Mouse is like a toy, a puppet far away from the hubbub, then Tom Rabbit is naive, kind and sincere, more like a sincere friend next door, full of fireworks.

There are four series in Tom Bunny, which is ugly, but it is actually about the odds and ends of children's lives. Each book tells a short story, which is very suitable for children aged three or four. The image of a rabbit is equivalent to a child. Tom got lost, wet the bed, went to kindergarten, played hide and seek, moved and went to the hospital. Every child can find himself in Tom, afraid of the dark, shy, embarrassed to wet the bed, sad to move, lost and helpless in shopping malls. In reading and being read, these real and concrete emotions are released to varying degrees.

I remember writing these words at that time: Mom asked the baby/Tom Rabbit/Why did he cry/The baby said/Tom couldn't find his mother/Mom couldn't find his baby/cried/That's what it meant.

6 Sikairui Golden Childhood

I also watched Skyray's Golden Childhood. Some people say that the picture is too complicated and the story is broken. I have a similar feeling. However, "wheel rotation" is extraordinary, especially for boys. There are all kinds of wheeled carts, such as banana carts, toothpaste carts, cucumber carts, shoe carts and so on. It makes people's brains wide open.

4-5 years old

7 Baba Baba

When Bao Xiao was about four or five years old, he was fascinated by the "Daddy Daddy" series. About two or three months before going to bed, we are immersed in arbitrary deformation and the warmth of loving each other every day.

I bought all the online "Baba Dad" series, including Baba Dad's new stories and Baba Dad's cognitive stories. She was excited by the change of her father and children. Even if a lot of content is familiar enough to recite, even if I use a wrong function word when reading, she can observe it in detail, but every time I listen, she is as devoted and expecting as the first time. This loyal little fan is devoted like a sunflower waiting for the sun every night.

I remember a story about the new image of Barbouille. Barbouille's hairstyle changed into corn beard, pigtails and fried hair, just like magic. Bao Xiao has passed more than ten days like a day. Every day, he shows the surprise that "life is just like first sight". I am drunk, too. Finally, it rained, and Barbouille's hair returned to its original state. It says it likes it at its best. This book has been told at least 20 times in Baba's new story.

8 Babe Bear Series

Also worth mentioning is the Babe Bear series. This set of books is also closely related to children's daily life, but the plot and story are much more complicated than Tom Rabbit.

Tell children how to develop good behavior habits and personality habits with vivid and interesting pictures and texts. For example, seeing what you want, indulging in TV, shopping, going to road trip, doing housework, sports meeting, planting flowers, grass, raising animals and so on. There are also family sports meetings, pumpkin contests, hugging others and getting rid of jealousy. Babe Bear's brother and sister are like children's own affairs, and Babe Bear's brother and sister's feelings are like children's own feelings. Perhaps it is this sense of identity that makes children never tire of reading.

There are many books in this set of books. Not all of them, but they were recommended to many people. A boy likes them very much. His mother bought him more than 80 books. It is said that I read a few books by myself every day and let my mother read them again. This set of books was unprecedented as soon as it was bought, monopolizing his sleeping time for more than half a year.

9 scientific cognition series

Cute body series, including tooth decay, stool, navel, blood and tears, is closely related to children's physical growth, and is the health knowledge they want to know and should know. This book, like the Newton Science Museum and the Magic School Bus, belongs to the scientific cognition series.

The magical school bus series has a feeling of crossing. Teacher Mao Juan's strange clothes make her appear amazing every time, which echoes the story itself well.

Little Newton is also very good, a lot of hands-on practice. According to the experiment in the book, we soak the soybean in a pot and observe it every day, waiting for it to take root and sprout day by day. We cut off the head of the carrot and soak it in water until it becomes a little green, a little fat, a little red and a little thin.

The edge of the book is the happiness of the book.

There are so many books suitable for children to read. A friend once told me that if you don't know what books to buy, it's probably not wrong to look at Dangdang's ranking, and the reputation on it is still relatively credible. This statement is probably good.

However, every child's level of excitement is different, just like Different Ksenya Goryachova Camilla, which has a great reputation and Bao Xiao is not interested. There are many books synchronized with film and television, such as Smurfs, Thomas, and later Winnie the Pooh series, Princess Sophia, Princess series and so on. She doesn't catch a cold. At most, I was excited when I bought it back, and then I put it on the shelf.

Books are also destined for people. Sometimes books meet a thousand bosom friends, and sometimes lovers talk too much. But in any case, don't read some "specific utility" books. For example, in order to make her develop a good habit of brushing her teeth, I also bought many books about brushing her teeth, except "I love brushing my teeth" and "Who are the friends of moths?" "and" What's New in Tooth Street ">" Crocodiles are afraid of dentists "and so on, all have the cognition of how bad dental caries are. But unfortunately, so far, she hasn't got into the good habit of brushing her teeth every day. Read the book in one day at most, then brush it for quick success and instant benefit, and forget it the next day.

As Mr. Matsujuzhi, the father of Japanese picture books, said, picture books are not "useful" to children, not for learning things, but for feeling happy.

Nevertheless, the ingenious idea of What's New in Tooth Street still amazed me and brought us a pleasant reading experience.

By the way, there is also a supporting book "There is a Railway Station in the Belly", which advises children not to eat cold drinks, but it does not preach or summarize. It just tells a story about how the food in the stomach is digested and circulated in the body.

These two books are excellent varieties made by Germans.

Thanks to the publishers and authors of wonderful children's books, today's children can read so richly and are so lucky. Thanks to the warm bedtime, intimate time and place, the subtle feeling of reading together, the moment of laughing together, and the childhood of my children, I also had a childhood that was very different from my childhood, because these books were my first contact and reading. Children bring me compensation and growth in my childhood, which always inspires me to become a better self.

In reading, knowledge is secondary, emotion is important, and habit is primary.

If you want your children to develop good reading habits, it doesn't really depend on how many books you read together. Of course, this does not hinder the significance of parent-child reading habits. Like learning anything, the most important thing to cultivate reading habits is to stimulate children's inner motivation. He can find pleasure that other things can't give him, and then he will learn spontaneously. Once he turns on the reading engine, his little universe will explode out of control.

At this point, many books I have read have drifted away, but the related reading experience has lasted forever. I remember the first time I saw Leon to the Cloud. Bao Xiao said that it is really beautiful, just like music. The first time I listened to Piano Music in the Night, Bao Xiao said it was so beautiful that I was moved to tears. On another occasion, the title page of a book asked who the owner of the book was. I said you, of course. Mom bought it for you. Bao Xiao immediately said, I am an expert in listening to stories, and you are an expert in telling stories. The logic is so clear that I doubt it.

We draw various shapes together in the shape game. We try to find out the eldest and the second in the 14 mouse series. In the 7-mouse fishing series, the mother mouse is a master fisherman. She caught eight fish at a time in the carved ice cave. I still remember Bao Xiao's expression when she first saw a fishing rod catch eight fish, as if she were happier than the mice's brothers and sisters. Everyone in the family has one. After eating, they took one to their father. A happy family brings us warmth in winter.

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