What inexplicable things have happened to you when you entered society?

I have experienced many inexplicable things since I entered the society. For example, people praised me, but when I didn’t do well in the exam, they came to laugh at me.

I borrowed money from a friend to buy a house. After I sent a WeChat message to my classmate, he did not reply to me. Later, I thought my classmate had not received it, so I called and sent WeChat messages again and asked three times, but the other party did not reply. Much later I learned that there is no answer, it is the answer itself. When I was in high school, I studied well and others praised me. But when I failed in the exam, they all came to laugh at me. Since then, I have learned a truth: Don’t be too proud when others praise you. Life is generally conserved. As many people praise you as you do, there will be as many people scolding you or queuing up to watch your jokes.

I used to report my work to my boss, but the result was that I was fired the next day. It is impolite to send voice messages to people you are not familiar with. Our relationship is not strong enough to listen to you respectfully for 60 seconds. My patience can be given to my parents, relatives and lovers. I want to listen to their every tone, every second of breath, every mood, and feel what they convey. I have deep love for you, but you won’t have the patience to listen to a stranger’s nagging. Sometimes, I open a group and see what everyone is talking about. If I see a piece of voice, I instantly lose my desire to know more.

When I went to a Western restaurant for the first time, I ordered a steak cooked in 8 minutes, and then I felt that the waiter in the restaurant was laughing at me. I didn’t even know why she was laughing at me. Later, I learned a little about Western food etiquette and learned that when ordering a steak, you usually order an odd number. Ordering an even number seemed unprofessional, and I was probably laughed at silently by the waiter at the time. In fact, I think that when you go out to spend money, what you buy is happiness and comfort. If you worry too much about whether you are showing off your timidity or whether you look vulgar, it often means that your inner strength is not strong. In fact, I don’t need to mind the looks of strangers too much, because I don’t know anyone anyway, and no one but myself will feel embarrassed after 3 minutes.