In the case of more and more rural bachelors, is the method of door-to-door son-in-law reliable?

There is a saying in the countryside: "Recruit a son-in-law, play tricks". It means it's like a joke to invite a son-in-law to your house. Can not be serious, can not deal with real problems, reflecting the distrust of the door-to-door son-in-law.

Obviously, this proverb is too absolute. As we all know, from ancient times to the present, only-child households have obtained male labor to support their families by recruiting sons-in-law, and parents have a reliable guarantee for providing for the elderly. On the other hand, it also realized the hope of carrying on the family line for the woman. What's wrong with the son-in-law who comes to the door?

However, recruiting a son-in-law does have inevitable risks. Maybe it will lead the wolf into the room. For example, a few idle people recruit them into the house, which not only can't support the family and the elderly, but also makes the woman's family restless. Such an example can't be said in real life, but the truth is one in a hundred, and countless son-in-law are the most reliable. Therefore, we should have enough time to recruit son-in-law, make a profound inquiry about the "prospective son-in-law" and select those with high essence and good character. There is usually no problem.

Door-to-door son-in-law, also known as "inverted woman", is like a derogatory term and should not be. From ancient times to the present, door-to-door sons-in-law are men who have many brothers, poor living conditions and can't marry their wives (in the past, some large families didn't want to marry their daughters, so they relied on recruiting sons-in-law to keep their daughters). They do this out of helplessness, but it has nothing to do with their character and nature. How can it be unreliable?

Recruit a son-in-law, play some tricks ",so there is a folk saying, because there are some son-in-law who come to the door and nobody cares. Because of a small matter, they said that the woman poisoned him, looked down on him and patted her ass and left. "Anyway, I didn't spend a penny, nor involved. "In fact, such a man who has no obligation and is in power, even if he doesn't become a son-in-law and marry a daughter-in-law, their marriage life may not be perfect for a long time. This is the existence of such people, which makes a few people who want to recruit a son-in-law worry a lot. I'm afraid this is really a scam and joke.