It's terrible after online dating!

Recently, I read an interesting question in Zhihu: "What should I do if I find the other person ugly after online dating?"? Everyone has their own story about this problem. Their stories are sweet and heartbreaking, funny and lost.

There is a saying that "the farthest distance is not the southeast and northwest, but that I am by your side and you don't know". In fact, this sentence shows that the two men and women in online dating are in love with each other in the online world, but they think that they are far away from each other, sometimes they are really far away, and sometimes they are beside you and you don't know it. This has become a humorous joke in the network.

When I was in college, there was a beautiful woman in our dormitory who had several online romances. She is handsome and lovely, cheerful and lively, and her height is about 162, which is also a great beauty.

Her first online love affair was when she was a freshman. When she started chatting with that man, she just chatted like ordinary friends. Later, she couldn't stand each other's various sweet words and fell into love under the attack of love. They talked for about half a year, and one day they realized that they were close. So, they decided to meet.

She was beautifully dressed that day and asked me to accompany her to have a look. After all, she was a little shy and scared for the first time in love. She and I waited for a few minutes at the gate of the boy's university, and the boy came running happily when he saw her not far away. But she was a little unhappy, because a fat brother who weighed more than 2 kilograms ran over. Although he was a little handsome and cute, his figure was fleshy and his height was about 17. Finally, we had a meal together, and the man sat opposite her without saying a word, which was very embarrassing. Soon after, my friend said they broke up. How can I break up when I tell her I haven't held hands? We just don't like each other.

Later, she also had several online romances. They decided to meet after their inner struggle. She told me that the man was either short and awkward, or he was a dull gourd, or he was black and ugly, and his face value was not enough. In the end, he didn't dare to fall in love online.

Because the most beautiful language in the world is rhetoric, and love that feels close and far away is online love. Therefore, two people in online dating can't see each other at all. Who knows that each other has ulterior motives or other ulterior motives, or is affectionate.

especially after online dating, it's scary to see each other! Either the face value is not enough, the figure is not enough, or the character is not enough, or even there is a face value but no character, there is a character but no face value, or there is a figure but no face value. In short, online dating still needs to be cautious. After all, we all know that there are also online lovers. Because after meeting each other, I don't care if the other person is far from the online dating, but I care about each other's true love.

I have a cousin whose husband met through online dating. She said that when she was online dating, she sent photos and videos to him, and then called each other every day to increase her feelings. Later, her husband flew all the way to see him. When she saw him, there was not much difference between him and the Internet, and he didn't mind her. Finally, two people finally got married after three years of long-distance running.

Therefore, when you have been in love with the person you met online for a long time, you'd better be mentally prepared. After all, not everything is as beautiful as you think. At the same time, when online dating, read more relevant articles and cheer yourself up.