The story of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The story of mother-in-law and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the most complicated of all family relationships. There is a simple reason. Because women are sensitive and fickle, and because two women love the same man, how should they get along and communicate with each other? Read the story of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Mother-in-law story 1 Mother-in-law is paralyzed in bed all the year round. She can't help her family, but she needs someone to look after her. When the daughter-in-law was in confinement, her mother-in-law slapped her for the second time, but the daughter-in-law cried because of this. What kind of story is hidden here? Let's have a look!

My mother-in-law is paralyzed in bed all the year round and can't help her family. She still needs someone to look after her. When the daughter-in-law was in confinement, her mother-in-law slapped her for the second time, but the daughter-in-law cried because of this. What kind of story is hidden here? Let's have a look!

In addition to her husband's son, her mother-in-law also has a daughter who got married on 20 14. I came to this home on 20 15, but after strong opposition from my family. There is a reason why my parents disagree, and it is also good for me. I have no knowledge and graduated from junior high school, but my parents always hope that I can find a good family.

But at that time, my mother-in-law was already ill in bed, not a serious illness, but a little high blood pressure. My mother said that all the family members are healthy and can help you, but how can your future mother-in-law help you like this? On the contrary, you have to take care of her, so what good life can there be? But I didn't care about the opposition at that time. I know that although the father of the child has no education, he is a good man, and his future mother-in-law is no different. Now it seems that I am right!

Six months after I came to this house, I was pregnant, but during my pregnancy, it was really hard. Even I wondered if my choice was really wrong. Because my husband needs to go out to work, so does my father-in-law. I raise my baby at home and take care of my mother-in-law in bed.

Every time I go for a checkup, I ask my mother-in-law to stay still in bed. Even if necessary, wait a minute, three hours at most, and I'll be back. In this way, it seems that after a long time, I spent my pregnancy.

Soon the due date arrived, my husband accompanied me to the hospital to have a baby, and my father-in-law stayed at home, waiting for the good news of the baby's birth and taking care of my mother-in-law. Before leaving, her mother-in-law suddenly cried and raised her hand to hit her face. We were all scared and asked what was going on. My mother-in-law cried and said: other people's daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, and my mother-in-law went to the hospital to accompany her, but I could do nothing. I feel sorry for you.

I couldn't stop crying at that time. I think it is worthwhile to work hard for such a long time. We comforted her, and after she calmed down, we went to the hospital. In the hospital, maybe God bless, it really went well. I entered the delivery room at noon 12 and came out before 3 pm. I gave birth naturally, my son is 7 kg and 7 liang.

They were so happy at home after calling their mother-in-law to tell them the news. I also think this kind of life, although difficult, is very happy. I stayed in the hospital for 5 days and was discharged. Because of the natural delivery, my body is fine. The doctor said, go home and take good care of yourself and have a good confinement. Everything is fine!

I know that this confinement is definitely not easy, because no one cares about me and I can only come by myself. Finally, the child's father decided not to go to work this month, take care of the month at home and take care of her mother-in-law by the way. But unexpectedly, on the first 19 day of confinement, our family cried again!

After all, my father is at home, but it is inconvenient to take care of my mother-in-law in some places, so I will do something else. When I took out the urinal and turned around, I didn't know what was going on. My foot slipped and I fell to the ground with my urinal. The pain kept me awake for a long time.

When the father heard the sound, he came and helped me up. When she cried out in pain, her mother-in-law began to cry in bed. While beating herself, she said, "I'm sorry, son, you are restricted by the confinement." I can't help you, but I'm involved with you. Sorry. "

I quickly went up to stop it, saying it was nothing and it didn't hurt, but my mother-in-law seemed really sad and kept crying. My mother-in-law said, I have no skills in my life, and I dragged you into the water. I've been trying to tell you these days that we've worked for half our lives and haven't saved much money, totaling 1.7 million. I'll give it to you as soon as the baby is born, and I'll give it to you now.

When my mother-in-law took out a card from her and gave it to me, I didn't want it, but my mother-in-law kept crying, but I said, well, I'll take it first and give you a pension then.

Those nights, when I was lying in bed, I couldn't stop thinking about these tears. How can a person live well in this life? I don't know.

Mother-in-law story 2 1, keep respect.

No matter how rogue and rude the other person is, first maintain the minimum respect for the elders. In this way, even if the other party does evil again, it will not let itself fall into the reputation of unfilial arrogance. When you live together, you should learn to understand each other, and you can't think wrong. Although you can't be like your mother-in-law, you should at least respect her and be filial to her.

Step 2 try to communicate

Many contradictions are caused by the lack of communication between family members, which intensifies the contradictions. Calm down and discuss things, there will always be a way to solve the problem.

3. Listen more and talk less

Between people, the first impression is very important, so when you get along with your mother-in-law, you should learn to listen more and talk less, beware of unfounded disasters, listen more and learn more.

4. Do what you want

The simplest example is that my mother-in-law is generally frugal, so you can't buy anything, just don't show off in front of her mother-in-law after buying it; Or buy her an expensive gift. Not only will she not appreciate you, but you will also be accused of losing your family. Mother-in-law's preference is first understood by her husband, and then she must observe it herself. Husband is not necessarily right, women always know women better. Then, do what your mother-in-law doesn't like, or do it in public.

5, correct mentality

To make others happy, you must first feel comfortable, so don't compare your mother-in-law with your own mother. There is no comparability. The more you compare, the stronger your resistance will be. Someone else's mother is someone else's. Correcting mentality is the most crucial point for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

6, comity three points

Even if the mother-in-law is wrong, she should be polite before the soldiers, and always look at her husband's face. In fact, if we meet an unreasonable old lady in the street, it is only a theoretical problem. Are we really going to argue? Are you tired? Idle panic? So don't explode like a powder keg in front of your mother-in-law, and be careful to hurt yourself.

7. Don't live with your parents

When a big family lives together, it is bound to be different because of different living habits. Girls like to coquetry in front of their husbands, let them beat their backs, pinch their feet and pour water on them. Once caught by my mother-in-law, my daughter-in-law will become warped, and my mother-in-law will think that I served my son since I was a child, and now my son serves a little girl.