Over forty, don't show off these things in your circle of friends, so as not to be embarrassed.

People's growth is a process, from youth ignorance to youth exuberance, and then to maturity and stability, which is gradually formed with the passage of time and the increase of experience.

When we are teenagers and young people, we want the whole world to know that we will be impulsive, arrogant and have the psychology of keeping up with others. We want to prove how powerful we are.

But with our continuous growth and rich experience, we will understand that life is actually our own. "You know yourself when you drink water." Whether you live well or not, it has nothing to do with others.

Therefore, for some people, the higher their social status, the richer their experience, the more calm and low-key. They can see themselves and their lives clearly, but they live more comfortably.

But there are still some people who are old, but some concepts still can't keep up. Even if they are over forty, they can easily fall into their own world and some external fantasies. They like to show off in the circle of friends, which makes people feel uncomfortable.

Some people especially like to show off their families in the circle of friends, sometimes they go out for dinner and travel, and sometimes they play videos together.

Although their original intention is to express their satisfaction with life and share the happiness of marriage and family life, what does this have to do with others?

There is a good saying: "There has never been real empathy in this world."

In life, some people live happily, while others live unhappily. There is no problem with your happiness, but it is an invisible harm to those who are experiencing and suffering misfortune.

In fact, happiness is a feeling, you feel it, and this is your luck, so you should cherish it better instead of showing it off in a hurry.

What's more, there are some malicious people in society. If you treat them as friends, others may not think so.

Seeing a news, a woman always likes to bask in her second son in a circle of friends. She looked cute when she was two or three years old. She often sends a few small videos every day, indicating that she is sprouted by her children.

Even when she is away from home, she doesn't forget to share her records.

But she didn't know that someone in the circle of friends saw her child cute, so she moved her mind. One day, after sending a video, she found the place where they went out and quietly followed, ready to steal the child at any time.

Fortunately, this person didn't succeed, but the child was scared enough, and the mother sat on the ground and cried with her child in her arms. In the interview, she said: "I will never send messages in my circle of friends again."

Not everyone will be happy for your happiness. There are many people with ulterior motives. If you want to keep the happiness of your family, you'd better not share it in a circle of friends, so as not to give people an opportunity.

After the age of 40, most people have a relatively stable job, a good position and accumulated some wealth, which is the result of ten or twenty years of struggle.

On the contrary, people who have nothing to do and no savings after 40 will feel more uneasy and anxious, which is also the reason why the word "middle-aged crisis" exists.

No matter what job we do and how much wealth we get, in the final analysis, it is to settle ourselves down and live a better life for our families.

This is human nature and the inevitable direction of our development.

However, some people think that they can have these great things, so they often show off in their circle of friends.

I once saw a friend drying some screenshots of his investment and financial management in a circle of friends. He wants to show off how smart he is in financial management, but at the same time he doesn't hide the specific data of his different financial products.

In fact, for many people over the age of 40, this kind of savings and financial management distribution is very common, so even after reading it, I feel nothing.

For young people in their twenties, even if they envy such wealth, they are still young and have many opportunities in the future. It is not difficult to make this money.

In the end, such a circle of friends attracts people with malicious intentions. By "peeping" into the circle of friends, they can learn about your wealth, and then choose the object of cheating or borrowing money.

Friends in this circle of friends complained in the circle of friends after half a year. Someone borrowed100000 from him and disappeared. He felt unwilling, but 100 thousand yuan worked hard to find someone, which was a bit wasteful. In the end, he had to let it go.

As the old saying goes, "wealth is not obvious." When people reach middle age, no matter how much wealth they have, there is no need to show off. People are always "less than above, more than below". In that case, why bother yourself by showing off?

When people reach middle age, in addition to wealth, we will also accumulate a lot of contacts.

It is said that "many friends lead many roads". When encountering problems, it is true that some people you know can help each other.

Some people always show off how many good friends they have and how many particularly powerful people they know in their circle of friends, but when it comes to asking for help, they find that they can only find a few.

"All the hustle and bustle in the world is for the benefit, and all the hustle and bustle in the world is for the benefit." Even if we show off again, we should be clear in our hearts who exists because of interests and who is sincere.

Not many friends, but good. The key is whether anyone can help us when we are in trouble.

Interpersonal network is everyone's precious wealth. When interacting with friends, you don't have to be exposed, just exchange your sincerity for your sincerity. If you show off blindly, it will only make the other person feel uncomfortable and alienate you.

Moreover, it is inevitable to show off your contacts in the circle of friends. Others will acquiesce that what you send is what you think is important, which will make those friends who are not in your circle of friends feel chilling.

Since you can't do "a bowl of water is flat", why bother to send a circle of friends to find trouble for yourself?

If you have friends you like, you will have more contacts; If you don't like friends, you will gradually alienate; Show off less and show off more, and you can communicate stably.

As belinsky said, "Everything that is true and great is simple and humble."

If middle-aged people over 40 want to keep their happiness, wealth and connections, the best way is to avoid talking about it. I only know my own happiness. Living a good life is more real and worthwhile than showing off in a circle of friends.

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