Become the first choice resource for others, and you can have good contacts.

When I decided to quit my job and change careers, some people said that I had lost the contacts I had accumulated for decades and needed to re-establish my own contacts. I said, isn't that what the internet is like? There are many contacts that flow away unconsciously, and some will be born slowly. Just changing careers makes this process faster, and isn't this rapid change an opportunity?

Networking is a word that many people like to talk about, because people living in society must constantly deal with outsiders and have their own network of contacts. The bigger the circle of contacts, the easier it is to do things. Therefore, many successful scholars have greatly exaggerated the study of personal connections, and even people can achieve great things without doing anything.

For myself, I don't want my personal connections to be the step of my success, because what I want to do is my own creation. For a creator, it is necessary to have a certain network of contacts to make his works go to the public, but without the quality of his works as the foundation, there is no foundation. Even if he gets to the market through contacts, he can only make jokes like Ping An Jing.

No matter how you behave or do things, you must be strong first, just like the relationship between internal and external factors in philosophy, and the decisive factor is internal factors. To win recognition for our works, the most fundamental thing is the quality of our own works. Being a man is a person's quality and ability, and the help of contacts is always based on this.

In our current major social activities, we have always emphasized "supporting the will and wisdom", which also emphasizes the importance of wisdom and ambition, which is also the fundamental factor for a person to be strong, that is, "not helping the lazy". Because a person only has a strong heart, and he has the motivation to keep making progress, and "laziness" means only relying on external forces. The reality we see is that the poorer people are, the lazier they are, and the lazier they are, the poorer they are. This is a vicious circle.

Therefore, in terms of contacts, we need to fully realize the importance of contacts and effectively play the role of contacts. But don't abuse your connections and use good steel on the cutting edge. The most important thing is to be strong, to be able to stand up, to be self-reliant, to stand straighter, to go further, to have better network resources, and to be a high-quality network resource for others.