My parents and I had a bad time because of the bride price.

First of all, I want to tell you that you should take control of your future. You two are talking about your feelings, and you have reached the point of talking about marriage. If there is a rift and crisis in your relationship because of some marriage and family matters, it will be bad and not worth the candle.

There is no difference between 80,000 yuan and 6,543.8+10,000 yuan in the sense of marriage, but the extra part will be a burden or income for parents or two families, so after the increase from 80,000 yuan to 6,543.8+10,000 yuan, you should have a good talk with your parents and ask them if they will consider it for you from your standpoint, so that you can get along well with your future mother-in-law. Is it for you or for what? You said you have a younger brother, so I can imagine that your parents are doing it for your family, but at the expense of your happiness.

I think you'd better talk to your family and tell them yourself. Now your daughter is not married to someone else's house. After all, they are still their children. Isn't it just as filial after marriage? At that time, giving money was different? The son-in-law is half a son-in-law. You can talk about many things with your parents. Try to get married before marriage.

If you really need 65,438+10,000 yuan to get married, then I think you have to weigh yourself, which one do you want, which side do you stand on, which side do you choose, and be tough. I hope you can solve it yourself.

Also, communicate with him well and don't let him have great pressure on this matter.