Is it right or wrong to be a bridesmaid at a wedding?

There is no doubt that the wedding is festive, and excessive celebration is a typical mixed blessing.

If you want to ask why the wedding is so noisy, many people will say so, just to be lively.

Yes, I'm used to following the rules. I can't mess with anyone, I can't sprinkle flour on anyone, I can't hug strangers. Don't I have to do something I usually want to do on some busy occasions?

Some people try their best to cheat the bride and groom at the wedding.

The dusters, the tapers, the walkers, the window openers, and the bridesmaids who threw them into the water all tried their best to get married, for fear that they would not have fun.

In fact, most people choose to put up with such excessive jokes.

However, some people have gone too far. For people with principles, it is challenging the bottom line.

For example, the "bridesmaid" incident is really unbearable for reader Yue Xin.

0 1, a group of four girlfriends took time off from all over the country to be bridesmaids. This kindness is permanent.

As soon as the news of Yue Xin's marriage came out, college roommates couldn't sit still and signed up to be Yue Xin's bridesmaids.

To say that when they were in college, their roommates were four people, plus a classmate next door, which was a typical good girlfriend.

Have classes together, eat together, go shopping together, and agree that no matter who gets married in the future, they will be on the spot.

No, Yue Xin became the first of five people to get married, and the other four said that she must not be absent from her wedding.

It is only after graduation that you have to overcome different difficulties to participate. One of their girlfriends is now studying for a master's degree abroad. It is said that she took a few days off and invited her tutor to eat a few meals before grinding the holiday down.

Yue Xin was very moved by the efforts of her friends. Once, she thought some promises were just words.

I didn't expect my friends to treat each other's friendship very seriously, and they all wanted to take this opportunity of her marriage to get together.

Yue Xin said: "Being a bridesmaid is actually giving me a long face. My boyfriend got a groomsman group. Before that, I was worried that I didn't know what to do. "

Yes, there are many people on the boyfriend's side, like six groomsmen, some of whom grew up playing together, some of whom are high school classmates and college classmates.

In a word, their wedding was very lively and invited many people.

After all, for young people, the wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and it is always good to have someone to witness it. As long as the process is smooth and the result is beautiful, other small things are acceptable.

Before getting married, Yue Xin and her boyfriend decided on the wedding process and asked, "We don't have a bridesmaid."

Boyfriend said: "No, don't worry, we are all city people and can't be bridesmaids."

For this statement, Yue Xin put down her heart and waited for the wedding with peace of mind.

The groomsmen are unscrupulous, cuddling and playing kissing games.

On the wedding day, the bridesmaid is responsible for the game of blocking the door.

Unexpectedly, it was "broken" by the groomsmen in a few minutes: they kicked the door open, then one picked up a bridesmaid and left the bride's room.

When looking for shoes at that time, Yue Xin tried to stop it, but there was nothing she could do. She had to look at the rest of the groom and photographer in the room and cooperate with the following process.

Later, when they arrived at the hotel, there was still a period of time before the next process, and several people were resting in a room.

The leading groomsman first praised the bridesmaids for their beauty, and then forced them to ask questions, just like attending a blind date.

Some girlfriends secretly complained: "Isn't it said that there are no bridesmaids?" They picked us up just now, but many people hissed. "

Yue Xin apologized: "Yes, I said no before."

She found an opportunity to ask her boyfriend, "What do you mean by best man? You just rushed in and hugged people, and now you are asking questions. "

Boyfriend said, "Never mind, we are all of the same age. Let's have fun. "

Boyfriends don't care, so naturally no one will restrain the best man's behavior. As the wedding approaches, the best man will bring it up, hold the bridesmaid's hand for a while and play games on the stage.

The so-called game is a game of "passing pieces of paper with your mouth". Inadvertently, two people kissed.

My best friend insisted on it, saying, "We don't want to play this game. You should play it. "

A groomsman smiled: "This is not something that can be decided for a while."

Sure enough, after taking the stage, the best man offered to warm up the venue, and everyone played games together, with the best man and bridesmaids interspersed.

Everyone agrees on the stage that the bridesmaid is reluctant, but it is not easy to refuse, just for fun.

In a rage, the bride returned the bride price of 65,438+10,000 yuan and went home without marrying.

In the game of "oral note", as the name implies, one person sticks a playing card with his lips and the other person catches it with his mouth.

It makes me sick to think about it.

Yue Xin was angry when she saw her girlfriends shaking their heads again and again. She said, "Otherwise, we won't play. Some of my girlfriends haven't talked about boyfriends yet. This game is a bit too much. "

One of the groomsmen said, "That's it? The wedding should be a bridesmaid, just playing a game, don't spoil the fun. "

Even the groom advised, "Everyone is watching. Just play. What harm can it do? " ? Since you are a bridesmaid, you must have the consciousness of being disturbed. "

The groom's words directly stunned Yue Xin. She said, "Why didn't I find you so incompetent before?"

Two people on the stage, you came to me and said a few words, their faces became more and more ugly, and the audience whispered.

Yue Xin was anxious: "If you dare to continue playing, I won't marry."

The groom said, "Will you marry me and give me back the bride price?"

So, Yue Xin directly pulled off the veil, grabbed MC's microphone and said, "Ladies and gentlemen, I'm sorry to make you feel embarrassed. I don't get married for three reasons. First, the best man group is unscrupulous and can't stand it. Second, the groom's quality is low and he was recognized today. Third, he himself said, let me return the bride price to him, and I agreed. "

After that, regardless of the uproar in the audience, I took my best friend's hand and left.

At the moment when she got on the bus and went back to her family, Yue Xin drew 65,438+10,000 yuan from her account to her boyfriend, and the two families wrote it off.

I have to say that Yue Xin's approach is very domineering, rich and principled. Now she is single again and doesn't want to get married. I don't know what her boyfriend thinks, and the best men realize that they have done something wrong.