I found a second-married husband and didn't get a certificate until I saw his ID card. I decided to call off the wedding. What should I do?

"Husband, remember to bring your ID card and household registration book tomorrow. See you at the Civil Affairs Bureau. Good night! " I can feel at ease after sending him a voice, because tomorrow is the day when we get the certificate, and I have been waiting for this day for a long time.

My husband and I met at work. At that time, he was the contact of our company's partners. At that time, I had just graduated, and everyone in the company talked lightly. I was given such a mission. Holding a pile of information, I don't know where to start. Finally, I crustily skin of head and found a partner, and my husband was the one who received me.

At first glance, I felt that this person was particularly capable, and everything he said and did was very kind. After getting along with him, he was less nervous. After he knew that I was a novice, he patiently explained to me and invited me to dinner at noon. I was going to make it AA, and he smiled and said I'll treat him next time. I was speechless at that time!

02.

After a long period of contact, I found that he was a good man. Anything difficult can be solved by him. Even our manager praised me for my rapid progress. Later, we started dating. At that time, I realized that he was 32 years old, eight years older than me, but his face was tender, but I didn't care. Instead, I think a mature man can live!

After talking for 2 years, my parents urged me to get married. When I asked him when he would marry me, he told me the truth. It turns out that he is a second-married man. He was divorced once before. At that time, he put all his energy into his work and neglected his wife, which led to her having someone else. They had no children at all, so they divorced after less than two years of marriage!

I asked him why he didn't say so earlier. He stammered, "I thought you and I were just talking about love, so I didn't say anything." When it comes to marriage, I can't help but say, after all, I have to be responsible for you. If you want to dislike my second marriage, let's break up peacefully! "

03.

I was angry just now. After listening to his explanation, I felt reasonable and forgave him. In the end, I chose to marry him, but my parents were firmly opposed to our marriage when they knew about it. In their words, I am a big girl who has never been married. I can't get a second marriage and I can't get married!

At that time, I didn't know where I came from. The less my parents let me marry, the more I decide to marry. Later, I thought of a way to cook raw rice into mature rice. A month later, I was pregnant. When my parents learned the news, they all gave in. The winner is me!

I am very happy to send a voice to my husband, asking him to prepare his household registration book and ID card, and go to the civil affairs bureau to get married early tomorrow morning, but what happened afterwards made me collapse!

04.

The next morning, my husband and I met at the Civil Affairs Bureau. Quite a few people came. We chatted while waiting in line. After a while, he said he wanted to go to the toilet, so he gave me everything and went to the toilet himself. When I was bored, I took a look at his ID card. I was shocked when I saw his birthday!

He is not 32 at all, but 38. He's almost a senior. He is 14 years older than me. If he has a daughter, he must be in junior high school! He lied to me again. Can I understand that his second marriage is also hiding something from me? He didn't tell the truth!

I can tolerate your second marriage, I can tolerate that you are older than me, but I can't tolerate that you cheat again and again. I ran back to my mother's house crying before he came back. Faced with such a man, I lost confidence in my marriage. I decided to call off the wedding. Do you support me?