Who is the head of the family? Humorous jokes.

Because we each have our own strengths, there is no such thing as a head of the family. I am good at summarizing and inductive methods. He is good at combining theory with practice. I am serious and responsible. He is positive and optimistic. Growing up, I took everything seriously. Now I am an educator, and I can't tolerate a little carelessness.

At first, lectures and services were all up to me. Hundreds of parents study with me every month. I often stay busy until after midnight to answer my parents' questions. Sometimes I encounter some very difficult situations. Children who don't have enough money are tired of studying and addicted to mobile phones. I have to analyze the reasons behind the problems bit by bit.

When I am very tired, it is really painful, but I can't see that the parent-child relationship between parents and children is getting worse every day. Once I told my husband, husband, am I not competent enough? My husband encouraged me to say, Guixing, you can't help your parents, and no one can help them. If we are tired, let's have a rest. You have to believe in yourself. Now you are the hope of your parents. Then, he will tell me that he came to Beijing to start a business after graduating from college, living in the basement and sleeping in the office. Ordinary people feel very bitter. He told me with a smile that his eyes are still shining, that the difficulties and setbacks are only temporary, and the most important thing is to have a positive and optimistic attitude to face and solve problems.

I get up at five o'clock every morning and see him preparing breakfast for me in the kitchen. I remember that when I told my friends and relatives around me that I was going to marry my husband, my parents and friends opposed it, saying that I wanted to find someone with high education, money and youth, but I didn't listen. Now time tells me that I really didn't choose the wrong person. If a person can be sincere to you, he can have the courage to choose himself.