My best friend always speaks ill of me behind my back. Should I forgive her?

I can forgive you. I think there are some things between girlfriends that can be said in person. Not everyone can guess each other's thoughts. If she inadvertently does something that makes her unhappy in the process of communication, she can say it. That's called a best friend.

In fact, it is inevitable for anyone to talk about others behind their backs, but if you want to talk about it, you must seek truth from facts and don't embellish it with bad words and rumors.

Words hurt people deeply, especially from the closest friends. Unfamiliar people, in any case, know and pass by with a smile, but how can girlfriends be the same?

So, you can forgive, because when she speaks ill of you with others, he is no longer your best friend, so why do you feel sorry for this person? All you have to do is tell yourself that you want to be happy! Is that weird? No, because I can save time with her in the future, and I don't need to spend a lot of thoughts on this person, and I don't need to get along with her as before. You can do anything meaningful in the time you save.

Yes, you just have to look at her and get away from her. There is no need to explain or expose him. Even if she comes to talk to you, you can cooperate with her. In the future, I will probably regard her as an ordinary person I know, and I will no longer care about her various things and have nothing to talk to him.

However, the kind of bad words mentioned above will not have a bad influence on you. If it is serious, it will affect your personal image, so you must correct it in time. Don't trust any pure person to clean up herself, especially when she is a best friend, the credibility will increase! If so, you must not forgive.