When do you find it difficult to love someone?

When it is difficult to love someone, there are only a few situations. First, when the pay is greater than the return, two people always move together. From the first understanding, to the later understanding, the last love. There is always a person who is always moving. Such active people often pay more and get less in return. Imagine that every day one party actively calls to send WeChat, and the other party just "mm-hmm".

The second is being defeated by reality, long-distance love and family reasons, which are suitable for each other. Let's talk about long-distance love first. What is a long-distance relationship? You are alone in one place, and you have to look at the people around you every day. You have to stand the test of loneliness, and of course you have to stand the temptation. Some couples feel that they are not around when they are separated, and there is no one to take care of them. Girls feel that they have no dependence. They can only shout on the phone every day, feeling exhausted, and then say, I'm tired. . . .

Then there are family reasons. Many times, because of family reasons, many people are tired of love and can't give each other what they want. At this time, they will get tired of love.

Third, it is very hard to love each other when you find that you two are different in character and idea, and when you don't want to be separated from him. I heard a joke the other day. A couple decided to divorce but hesitated, so they decided to choose tofu brain for each other. If they chose the same taste, they wouldn't get divorced. As a result, the man chose the sweet woman and the salty one. Although this is a joke, it is worth thinking about. If two people are not suitable, isn't love true?

The last point is doubt, when two people don't even have basic trust, then your love is really tired. Two people are suspicious of each other and think that everyone in this world has something to do with you. They try their best to peek at each other's mobile phones and pay too much attention to each other. Just listening makes them feel tired, so that when they are together, they are tired and really have nothing.