I spent 2000 yuan on a new dress for the Spring Festival, but my husband scolded me for losing my family and my wife ended her five-year nanny career. Am I wrong?

In the marriage and love market, women are very concerned about each other's economic conditions and will be called "money worshippers", but if a woman really marries a poor boy, I am afraid she will be laughed at as stupid.

In fact, when every woman chooses her husband, no matter whether he is rich or poor, she thinks that the other person can bring her happiness. Even though life is short at present, she firmly believes that the difficulties are temporary. As long as two people work together, Qixin will get better in the end.

It is a man's luck to marry an unimportant woman. To know the importance of money in life, when a woman is willing to follow you with affection and drink enough wine, there is pressure from her parents in addition to her firm determination. Only men can live up to this is the best answer.

However, not all men can support this expectation. The more sensible a woman is, the less motivated she is, and even smugly thinks she is attractive. When life and men can't be kind to women, women should leave.

02

As usual, Wang Yuchen plays games with his colleagues after work, fooling around until 7 o'clock. I guess Liu Lingli cooked the meal, so he was not in a hurry to go home. Who knows, when I opened the door, I found the room was dark and the kitchen was cold, only to remember yesterday's quarrel, and my wife had taken her daughter back to her parents' house.

Wang Yuchen didn't take it seriously. This has happened before. Liu Lingli will be back in two days. But this time he miscalculated, and his wife not only didn't come back, but also sent a divorce agreement and resolutely stopped living with him.

Think at the beginning, Liu Lingli regardless of family opposition, determined to marry general Wang Yuchen. Actually, I don't blame my parents-in-law for being snobbish. Although my son-in-law has a good job, he has no savings and no family, and his conditions are not a little worse than those of other suitors.

Wang Yuchen knelt in front of her parents-in-law and promised that she would get ahead sooner or later and mix tricks to honor her parents. At Liu Lingli's insistence, the marriage was successful.

However, saying and doing are always two different things. After his daughter-in-law got married, Wang Yuchen completely forgot her promise. Colleagues are busy taking professional titles and getting promoted, but he has made no progress at all. He dawdles at work every day and has no sense of crisis, so he has always been an unknown employee.

03

Although Wang Yuchen has little skill, she has a big shelf at home and doesn't get her hands dirty when doing housework. Fortunately, Liu Lingli is very diligent and doesn't care about him. She is running alone. At first, Liu Lingli worked from nine to five. She has no mother-in-law. After her daughter was born, she had to resign, take care of her children and work part-time online to earn some money to support her family.

With the Spring Festival coming in a few days, Liu Lingli went shopping with her best friend. At first, she didn't want to buy anything, so she thought it would be enough to bring her children home clothes at home. However, my best friend said that there was a big discount in the mall, so I made a profit when I bought it. She also said that relatives and friends will pay New Year greetings to each other, others will dress up beautifully, and her husband will lose face.

Girlfriend analysis is very meaningful to Liu Lingli. Since her marriage, she has saved money to pay off her mortgage and rarely bought clothes. Every time I go back to my mother's house, I scold her for letting a good man not marry. She has to choose her present life. So Liu Lingli thought twice, and spent 2000 yuan to buy the most affordable long down jacket, which he planned to wear during the Chinese New Year to stop his mother's mouth.

After returning home, Liu Lingli tried left and right in front of the mirror. Hearing the sound of the key opening the door, she quickly ran out to boast and asked her husband, "Look, my new clothes are beautiful, right?"

Wang Yuchen laughed and joked while changing shoes: "Oh! Short legs also have spring! Don't you have some down jackets? Why buy so much? "

04

When Wang Yuchen opened the label and saw the price on it, his face suddenly changed: "What? Spend more than 5 thousand on such a broken coat? You really can't make money, how can you be embarrassed? "

Liu Lingli was embarrassed. She defended: "No, no, more than 5,000 was the original price, and I only spent 2,000. This is not a broken coat, but a brand down jacket. This classic style can be worn for many years without being eliminated! "

After listening to the explanation, Wang Yuchen didn't let go, but he was even more angry: "What do you mean, only two thousand? You are a person who doesn't even have a job, pointing at me, and you have lost confidence. "

At this moment, Liu Lingli lost his temper and said, "You are finished. Don't I have the right to buy a new Chinese New Year dress? " Why don't I have a good job? You know that. Don't think it's easy to be a full-time mother. Why don't we change? Besides, I work part-time online, earning two or three thousand yuan a month. Please don't treat me like an idle person! "

The whole evening, Wang Yuchen said this by innuendo, suggesting that a housewife in Liu Lingli doesn't deserve to wear such expensive clothes, so it is better to return them and change some new year's goods. 2000 yuan is enough for a family of three to live a rich year.

Liu Lingli's tears suddenly fell, and the more she thought about it, the more sad she became. Before marriage, she was also a fashionable girl who loved to dress up. She bought almost every season's new style, but because she chose this man, she not only gave up her hobby pursuit, but also got tired of life. She worked as a free nanny for five years before she bought a quality dress and was accused of losing her family. How can a person's heart be so cruel?

05

Liu Lingli spent a sleepless night. At dawn, she packed up luggage belt and took her daughter back to her family. Wang Yuchen looked on coldly from beginning to end, without a word of encouragement, let alone an apology. He even felt that his wife's vanity was getting bigger and bigger, and even a lady's petty bourgeoisie dared to learn from that income.

Sensing something was wrong, Wang Yuchen hurried to her mother-in-law's house to meet someone, but General Iron locked the door. Her mother-in-law spoke through the window and told him to walk back and forth, so as not to harm her daughter again. Divorce is not negotiable.

In life, some men are very stingy with their wives, unwilling to pay attention to help share the housework, unwilling to pay for clothes for their wives, and even unwilling to say a compliment to their wives. If he has money, it is his credit. If he is not rich, it is because his wife has not saved money.

Food, clothing, housing and transportation are the foundation of life. When a woman gives up her job for her children and family, then a man should not have any emotions, let alone feel burdensome. No matter whether the man is in charge of the household or the woman is in charge of the household, only the family division of labor is different. People who earn money should be duty-bound to take on family life.

Everyone yearns for a better life. A woman marries a poor boy, not because she likes being poor by nature, but for love. A man with a little conscience will never fail.