A dozen blind dates failed. What should I do if others don't want what I want and others want what I don't want? My girl

If you don't succeed in dating for more than a dozen times, and then you don't like others, but others like you, this situation now means that it is difficult to meet someone you like, so I think if you are a girl, you should lower your requirements appropriately. Otherwise, it's hard to find another partner. In fact, it's hard for a girl to put it off. After all, her age is there, and the older she is, the harder it is to find someone. So I think it is appropriate to lower my requirements.