In the adult world, where does the word "easy" come from? Who is still carrying a heavy burden?

The years are passing quietly, and as of today’s writing, it is already the last day of November, and there are only thirty days left until New Year’s Day.

In the past few days, many netizens have sent me some of their stories. Unknowingly, I have become a role similar to an emotional client, but I am also very happy. It may bring some warmth and small changes to them.

At the end of the year, many adults seem to be just like children, particularly prone to crying.

I remember some time ago, I saw a piece of news about a girl who illegally parked on the side of the road. When the traffic police came to criticize and educate her, the girl burst into tears. While crying, she said, "What should I do? I don't know how to use navigation, and no one answered my phone calls to my husband." The traffic policeman was also confused.

"I've been working overtime for two weeks. I finally got off work early today. I was thinking about going home to make dinner, but I ended up stuck here again." That kind of crying sound is not angry or angry. Anger is more of a helplessness and grievance.

I have obviously worked very hard, but I can’t even satisfy such a small thing as going home for dinner, not to mention the grievance and discomfort in my heart when I think about my family members who have always had little time to spend with me. All of a sudden, it came to my mind.

Life seems to have never given up on any of us. In the midsummer of this year, the same industry, the traffic police, stopped a man on the road and drove the wrong way in the middle of the night. As a result, he collapsed all of a sudden, crying loudly and kneeling down, and later he even wanted to jump into the river.

After being stopped by the traffic police for all kinds of farce, he hugged the traffic police and said hoarsely, "I'm really...stressed!" I believe that when you hear this, you will think of what you are living in. In the environment, you may sigh because you feel the same, or you may be angry. Why do you go retrograde when you are stressed? Then my pressure is nothing.

"I work overtime until twelve o'clock every day. Today my girlfriend didn't bring her keys. It's my first time going against the grain. I want to go back quickly and give her the keys..."

"You guys Go back, I just want to cry for a while." The man sighed helplessly, and the traffic police said, "It's okay, just vent, we will guard you." Who is not moving forward with a heavy burden?

It is said that men do not shed tears easily, but they are not sad yet. I believe everyone has seen the video of a man drinking too much on the subway. Regarding the arrival of the police, he repeatedly said, "I'm sorry, I really can't get up. I asked my girlfriend to pick me up." When his girlfriend rushed to the scene, he hugged her and cried, "Baby, it's really hard." I'm sorry, I wronged you by being with me." My girlfriend also started crying.

The two young men were both office workers and came to this city to work together. The man was in sales. He drank with his customers until late that night and couldn't get up. That feeling is so disappointing! It's the kind of uncomfortable feeling where I've risked my life, but my hands are still empty, and I can't give my loved ones the life they want, and I can't even maintain basic living security.

I have been writing articles for almost four years. During these four years, I have seen many people cry because of their feelings. But this year, they are more helpless and sad about their own lives. tear. Some friends said they wanted to come for a cup of tea, and then they suddenly broke down and cried while drinking. She said that she suddenly felt that life was so difficult.

Some people just got off the elevator and the delivery boy asked, is this Building 14? I said no, Building 14 was behind, and he ran over. It’s over, it’s going to be late...

To live to this age, you need to go through something, so that you don’t live in vain. I remember one morning when I got off work, I walked downstairs and found that it was raining outside. I didn’t know what happened for a while. I suddenly squatted on the ground and cried. Why did I forget to check the weather forecast? Why didn’t I bring it with me? Putting an umbrella on me...

It's really, really unfair. I just suddenly felt that I was not up to par, and suddenly felt that life was too difficult to take care of.

Gradually, I learned to read the weather forecast in advance. When I went out, I thought about how long I wanted to go out. I tried to wear as many layers of clothing as possible when going out. This way, I don’t have to huddle up when it’s cold and I always carry it with me. Tissues, don’t panic if some embarrassing situations arise...

Yes, every collapse will make you understand some truths, which really require you to use your painful heart again and again. To feel.

I often say that I envy people who have always been willful, because children who are too sensible must be filled with pain in their hearts, which are pains that willful children have not experienced at that time.

It is precisely because of this that many of my friends who have confided in me will say, I'm sorry, I was a little rude just now. I said, I have experienced times when I was more embarrassed than you. But no matter what, despite all the embarrassments and setbacks in life, nothing can stop me from loving it.

As Romain Rolland said, "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, which is to still love it after knowing the truth of life."

In the world of adults, there is nothing "Easy" is the word, and there is never any special period for adults to collapse. They always cry and make trouble by themselves, and then quietly clean up the mess by themselves, tidy up their appearance, and put on a smile. , continue to set off.

In this world, there is never any empathy. Each of us is experiencing a life that others have never experienced, and we also bear responsibilities and obligations that others have never assumed. But these are all like When people drink water, they know whether it is warm or cold.

If, one day, you encounter a very small thing, and you say that you suddenly want to cry, then cry loudly, and don’t be afraid of others laughing, because at this time, In fact, everyone has it, just at different times.

Young people, I hope you can bravely face all kinds of life. No matter what the future holds, no matter what you are going through, please love life and love life. Because only the way you look when you are loving is the most beautiful!