"Enter the gate 10000, enter the small gate 50000, or don't marry" "Why do you say that?

Wedding is a major event in life, and no one wants an accident on this day. Everyone hopes to get married smoothly.

Only sometimes, some people like to take advantage of this and impose some unrealistic ideas on new people.

Mr. Chen, who is ready to get married, has encountered such a thing.

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Mr. Chen was born in an ordinary family, and his parents are employees of the enterprise. Although it didn't give him a good life, it gave him a down-to-earth character.

At the age of 25, he met a girl he liked.

The girl's family, like him, is a down-to-earth ordinary white-collar worker. They are good-natured and have good personalities. They have been in love for less than half a year and have reached the stage of engagement.

The girl's parents know that it is not easy to earn money, and they are not too demanding of the bride price. Because I know that Mr. Chen bought a house and got a loan by himself. As long as he got the bride price of 50 thousand, things would be settled.

Money is not as important as children's happiness.

Both parents hit it off at first sight. Although this is the 1 meeting, it seems that we have known each other for many years.

Maybe this is the right match.

As a result, the marriage was in full swing.

But a few days before the wedding, an unexpected guest came to the girl's house.

This man is the cousin that the woman hasn't seen for years. I don't know why, but he came to the girl's house a few days early.

The girl's parents are also very kind to see this nephew they haven't seen for years.

Without a few words, my cousin asked her about the bride price. He was "stunned" when she learned that there was only 50,000 yuan.

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Why is it only 50 thousand? My cousin asked, in his city, the bride price is a symbol of the woman's appearance. With less money, parents can't hold their heads in front of relatives.

The girl's parents also hesitated. At that time, they only considered their children's feelings and wishes, without considering their so-called "face".

The girl's father sighed and said, that's it, the words have been said, and we can't go back on our word.

The girl's cousin waved his hand and said that he would give it to him. He is very experienced, and there is no problem.

But after the job is done, there is one more thing to discuss with them.

Cousin deliberately did not say that he was doing business outside and needed start-up funds. I know my cousin is married, and I want to see if I can borrow some money.

The girl's parents don't know about it, but they are worried about not screwing it up. Everything is still about getting married.

On the wedding day, the rainy days for several days suddenly cleared up, as if even God was blessing the couple.

Mr. Chen made a lot of preparations for this day, and even took the money for buying a car in cash, a * * * 65438+ ten thousand, plus a lot of red envelopes for the best man to hold just in case.

Sure enough, preparation is useful. At the gate of the community, friends and relatives blocked it, and the red envelope opened all the way and finally reached the door of the corridor.

However, these red envelopes are small money, which is a fun thing.

It's just that the Loudaokou is different. A strange man, standing here with all men and women, is full of momentum.

"Enter this door 1000 yuan, enter the small door above 50,000 yuan, or you won't want to marry my sister."

Mr. Chen looked at the brother-in-law he had never met before and wondered if the joke was a little too big.

I thought it was just a fight, but I didn't expect that the man stuck at the door wouldn't give in at all and wouldn't let go until he saw the money.

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Mr. Chen called his girlfriend and found that she didn't know these things, so he called his prospective parents-in-law.

With so many relatives, the second boss can't lose face and can only stand on the nephew's side.

It has been deadlocked for nearly half an hour. Seeing that it's getting late, Mr. Chen is a little anxious.

He stubbornly said to his brother-in-law, who was stuck at the door, go up and convey it. I only ask one thing. If you promise, I have 65438+ ten thousand here, and I will strike the table immediately.

Brother-in-law gave a hand and got whatever he wanted.

Teacher Chen said that if you say yes, you will change it. I feel like you are selling your daughter. I can give you money, but you are not allowed to go back to your parents' house for the next five years and you can't interfere in anything. If you agree, you will get the money. If you don't agree, don't marry the one who should marry.

My brother-in-law was a little dumbfounded, so he went up to his cousin's parents.

After listening to this request, the girl's parents knew that Mr. Chen was a little impatient, and quickly said that he didn't want money and quickly came up.

Hearing this, my nephew couldn't think of any other way, so he had to give up and secretly left his cousin's house while Mr. Chen came up to pick up his relatives.

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There is a high praise about love in Zhihu: All material conditions are a part of love, which is not shameful.

An elder sister in the office once admitted that there are only two things to quarrel with her husband, one is for the children and the other is for the money.

Money is not a vulgar thing, but the material basis of all life.

But as Mr. Chen has experienced, it is not the basic attribute of money, but the use of this attribute to achieve other ulterior motives.

Money serves love, and if it is restricted, the so-called eternity will easily go bad.

No one can talk about ideals without matter, and no one wants to be kidnapped by matter.

A long-term relationship needs the support of your feelings and wishes, otherwise no matter how good the material is, it will not bring back two hearts.

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Mr. Chen and his girlfriend finally got married smoothly, and both sides deliberately kept silent on the wedding day. The world of two people is very harmonious, and with joint efforts, life is full of flavor.

That "brother-in-law" hasn't appeared for several years.

Life has immediate necessities, as well as ideal poems and distant places; If you only look at the present and don't think about the future, life will lack some interest and vitality. If you only look at the future and ignore the present, the foundation of feelings will slowly rot.

The material foundation needs two people to consolidate, and the emotional life is also jointly managed by husband and wife.

Don't force, don't be melodramatic, plant the tree of marriage together, and the harvested fruit will be more palatable.