Try not to send it if you can type it clearly. Why?

One night more than a year ago, my son told me about his kindergarten before going to bed. He said the teacher wouldn't let him go to the toilet to pee.

I said, why not let you go? Didn't you raise your hand?

He said I raised my hand.

I also said that maybe the teacher didn't see you raise your hand, or your hand was a little low. Next time, you can hold your hand higher and hold it longer.

He said no, anyway, I don't know why he didn't go, so I couldn't hold my breath and my underwear was getting wet.

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I knew from my son that I couldn't find the root cause, so I said, son, can I talk to your teacher about this? Look, the teacher didn't see you raise your hand.

He said yes.

So, I picked up my mobile phone and wanted to talk to the teacher to find out about the children's situation in kindergarten during this time.

At that time, I picked up my mobile phone and chatted with the teacher. At first, we all exchanged pleasantries casually, and then I was ready to get down to business. The child kept asking me to tell him stories, which was very noisy. I am chatting with the teacher by voice. I'm not happy to have a quarrel with my child, and I'm a little angry with my child. I thought I was on the phone. What are you arguing about? So I want to express my meaning to the teacher as soon as possible, but the more anxious I am, the faster I speak and the heavier my tone is. Obviously, I wanted to communicate with the teacher euphemistically, but I spit out urgent and blunt words, which made the teacher feel that I was questioning her.

I know, damn it! The teacher must be very uncomfortable to hear this.

Sure enough! The teacher hung up the phone directly and I called again. Instead of answering my phone, she sent me a message by typing on WeChat, asking me to go to the kindergarten to find her early tomorrow morning, and then discuss it in detail.

The result is what you think, and the teacher is angry. ...

If I chat with my teacher the night before I go back, I will never chat with her by voice again. I'll send her a message. Because what I type, I will think twice before sending it out, to see if I have made it clear. Did you really express my thoughts? Then you won't let the other person misunderstand.

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Yes, another reason is that a friend told me what happened to her. She said that once she asked the leader for leave. The leader agreed, but told her not to let other colleagues know, because several colleagues asked for leave this month, but he didn't approve it. Seeing that she was more active in her usual work, she allowed her to leave.

It's broken! It happened that her colleague was nearby and could hear clearly.

Of course, her colleagues must be very angry. Besides, the leader is a man. This colleague privately spread rumors about her affair with the leader, which made it difficult for her to stay in the company.

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Therefore, whether in life or work, voice short messages bring us convenience, but also have many disadvantages. At the same time, for people who need to be quiet around them, the voice is an annoying noise and an annoying interference that people can't avoid.

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Do you still want to talk to others by voice? Type if you can!