If you are poor in the busy city, no one asks what it means to be rich and have distant relatives in the mountains. Everyone has become money-oriented.

When you are poor in the city, no one asks what it means to be rich in the mountains and have distant relatives. The general meaning is that when you are poor, even if you live in the city, there are no relatives or friends to care about you. Even if you have money and power, If you live in a remote mountain, people will come to visit you. People often express their feelings about the influence of wealth on human relationships by saying, "If you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you; if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives." The pursuit of wealth has arisen since the birth of human society. The amount of wealth has become a symbol of status and status, and naturally it has become the envy and following of others. Or you can get help when you need it; or you can get a glimpse of the secret to getting rich through mutual contacts; or you can get the rewards you expect through interactions, and get a share of the pie. Although the purpose is different, the desire to get something in return is the same. Therefore, even if the rich live far away from the bustling city and live in remote mountains, people often come to visit and learn from them, which seems to be more humane. The poor have nothing to learn from and have nothing to offer. Even if they live in a busy city, very close to each other, few people visit them, so they naturally appear to be less humane.

The general idea is: The poor are ignored in front of you, but the rich are found no matter where they are in the mountains.

What is easy to understand about this? If you are poor, everyone will be afraid of you, including relatives and friends. Even if you are on a busy street, I am afraid that no old lady will come to your door. Only then did he agree with the saying: When you are poor in the streets, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives! Sigh: The world is so cold!

The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them, the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives. As the saying goes: A penny cannot kill a hero. The world is hot and cold, and people are poor. Even if you live in a busy city, others will ignore you and treat you as if you don't exist. But if you are rich, even if you live in the mountains and forests, there will still be people who visit you. The current society is one where money comes first. As long as you have money, others will look up to you. If you don't have money, no one will care about you.

The reason for this phenomenon is that the current social atmosphere has changed, and everyone has become money-oriented. More and more people no longer worship scientists and industrialists, but more and more like acting stars. This is because celebrities make money easily and filming a movie is very expensive.

When will everyone stop chasing stars and measure people not only by money, but also by talent and morality? This society will be a truly harmonious society.

When you are poor, your relatives and friends rarely interact with you. When you are rich, your relatives will come to you even in the mountains and forests.

As the saying goes: Don’t go to war when your horse is thin, don’t go to relatives when you are poor. When you are poor, try not to go to the homes of relatives and friends. At this time, there are many people who will add insult to injury, cynicism, and laugh at your jokes. .

When you speak, you can’t straighten your waist. Only by improving your living conditions and making yourself stronger can you impress others!

This is a common social phenomenon. The more serious the phenomenon, the more prominent it is. It reflects the more chaotic and low-level the society. I think this problem is the main problem that society needs to solve. It causes problems. The main reason is that one is poor and the other is rich. Why? The country is the home of the people across the country, and home is a warm feeling. Why are we poor because we are stepmothers?

When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives? This is an old saying that has been used in the interactions between people since ancient times. It is natural for people to dislike the poor and love the rich. He and Fu both have their own life circle, which is also a reflection of real life. In ancient times, there was a huge gap between the rich and the poor. This was caused by snobbish people who disliked the poor and loved the rich. The rich lived in the mountains and were relatives, while the poor lived in the streets and did not know each other. People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. Birds of a feather flock together, and people divide into groups. This is the case for everyone, and it is like this for generations. Nowadays, there are some people around us who are not like this, such as relatives who don’t get to know each other very often. As long as you are doing well and have money and power, they will come to your door to curry favor with you and try to please you and want to lend them money. Relatives who often get along with each other will look down on you as long as you are poorer than them, have no money or power, and may even cut off contact with you, fearing that you will ask them to borrow money for help. Similar situations occur wherever you go.

Today is a money society. Everything is about money. People who are poor have ambitions to be poor. If you want to be rich and not be looked down upon by others, you must work hard! Change your destiny! There will also be a day when you can turn over and live the life you want!

This proverb comes from "Zengguang Xianwen", also known as "Xianwen of the Past" and "Xianwen of Ancient and Modern Times", which is a children's enlightenment book compiled during the Ming Dynasty. This book is based on the Confucian thought of Xunzi's Theory of Evil Nature. It analyzes and elaborates on human nature with a stern eye, presenting some of the complex and gloomy aspects of the human world. This sentence originally read: The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them, the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives? It means: If you are poor and penniless, no one will come close to you even if you live in a bustling and noisy city with people coming and going; but if you have glory and wealth around you, even if you live far away in the mountains and wilderness, you will still have money. Estranged relatives kept coming to visit.

This widely circulated proverb, in the eyes of the public, is a torture of the warmth and coldness of the world caused by wealth and poverty. Living in a nearby market, maybe we are only one step away from each other, or even walking side by side, passing each other, but in the end we turn a blind eye; but living deep in the mountains, even if we are thousands of miles away, we will travel all the way and work hard to find relatives. , not to mention distant relatives. The two are true portrayals of the differences in social status and circumstances between the poor and the rich in people's eyes.

People usually summarize this sentence as: human beings are indifferent and the world is cold. The focus of the gathering is the extreme indifference to the poor and the excessive desire for wealth. It is also driven by value and interests, regardless of family ties. In fact, it is more about the stain of money on family ties. Distant relatives? It is a character construction that connects this phenomenon with human nature. In fact, this sentence also contains a sigh of indifference to the poor.

On the other hand, in real society, there are many people who avoid the poor and flock to the rich. I feel that getting along with the poor will lead to a lot of troubles. It is not profitable, but only a small amount of rice is gained and lost. What's more important is the positioning of people's survival goals today, which makes everything they do and the people they seek more purposeful and targeted. The poor have no power or money, but the rich generally have all the means to make money. Even if they don’t need anything at the moment, they still need to make preparations in advance to meet their needs in the future.

The interpretation of this sentence is always one-sided. This sentence is seen as highlighting the evil side of human nature, and even carries some of the stamps of the times and a negative outlook on life. In real society, especially relatives and friends, most people still have warm emotions. Friendship, blood relationship, loyalty, kindness, even if there is still a beautiful side in human nature, we will not abandon our poor relatives and only see money. There is also a saying that the friendship between gentlemen is lighter than water? The friendship between gentlemen and friendship runs deep. Extraordinary following and flattery will only attract contempt.

The poor? They are the vulnerable group in this statement. If you are depressed and negative, the world will be even bleaker. Confucianism emphasizes poverty and happiness. Yan Hui took a basket of food and a ladle of drink in a back alley, but he did not change his happiness. There are always people who despise him for having mental problems, but they don’t know that he has a greater spiritual pursuit. Maybe you really can't do anything without money, and when you are so rich that only money is left, and you still regard money as the only value, it just becomes an obsession in your heart. Can the meaning be greater than being poor but having unlimited joy?

The current resistance to selfishness and market mentality is indeed a reflection of a social phenomenon. But while we understand it, we should also use a critical attitude to examine the nutritional nature of its existence. Clarify your position and don't get lost in worldly perspectives.