The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, his parents went out to pick up rags. They came to propose marriage and said they would give me a car when they got married. Are they lying to me?

Our family is in a small 18th-tier county. We run a small business at home. Our family status is above average in our local area, so my parents think that when I get married, I must marry someone who loves me. The family conditions are not good. Next. Although my parents and I have little in common with each other, I think they still agree with me on this matter.

Maybe it’s because I haven’t experienced hardship since I was a child. When making friends, I don’t pay much attention to the other person’s financial conditions. Instead, I pay more attention to whether the other person has the same language as me. This is true for ordinary friends, let alone boyfriends.

My boyfriend and I met at a friend’s party. Strangely enough, the first time I saw him, I felt a flutter in my heart. Later, after getting to know each other, I felt that he had a great tacit understanding with me. Every time we were together, we had endless topics to talk about. After dating for a while, I decided that he was the person I wanted to marry.

The strange thing is that when we are together, he rarely mentions his family. Later, when I talked about marriage with him, he seemed to not want to talk more and said that his family's conditions were very average. I have never seen him deliberately avoid a question in front of me, for fear of hurting his self-esteem. Later, he rarely mentioned his family. I felt that as long as he was good to me, it would be fine.

Although he said that his family conditions are not good, everyone's family environment has a subtle impact on his growth. No matter how you hide it, there is always some information revealed in your daily speech and behavior. Although he said that his conditions were not good, he usually spent money very generously on me.

At first, I thought that men are all good-looking, and he is not exempt from vulgarity. All these are just to make myself look fat in front of me. But as time went by, I found that his consumption concept was definitely not like that of an ordinary person.

After dating for more than half a year, I asked to visit his house because my parents felt that in our small county, it would have a bad impact if we were friends with someone for a long time but did not get married. Let me go to his house to meet my parents, and if I have no objection, we can get married as soon as possible. After hearing this, he smiled and said, "Don't regret it!"

His family is in a village at the urban-rural fringe. It seems that the conditions are indeed not good. The house they built may not have the money to decorate it. It is still a rough house and there are not many decent furniture in the house. The room was also in a mess, and his parents were never seen. According to him, they might have gone out to pick up rags, so I didn’t ask any more questions.

I have always liked him, so the "tragic situation" of his family did not affect his status in my heart. After returning home, my parents agreed to his family coming to propose marriage.

What puzzles me is that on the day of the marriage proposal, his parents were not dressed like people who took the time to go out and pick up rags. After talking, I learned that his family was doing business in the provincial capital or city, and there was an office in the county, which was usually run by her boyfriend. Because the several girlfriends my boyfriend had in the past were all because of his family's money, which led to their breakup, so this time after hearing that I was not vain, his parents came up with this idea to try me.

Of course, they were satisfied with the result. My mother said on the spot that she would prepare a generous gift for me when we got married and also give me a car. My parents happily agreed and praised them for coming up with such a method. It was a great idea.

Watching them clinking glasses happily, I suddenly felt a little disappointed and felt like I had been deceived. I would rather my boyfriend's family were poorer. I can understand their thoughts, but to test me in such a naked way, I feel it is a humiliation for me.

They can guard against me now and test me in this way, but what about after they get married? Will my marriage just be spent in speculation and testing? Now that they are proposing marriage, should I agree? I suddenly hesitated!