It is said that "mean" people have four manifestations. What are the four manifestations?

In life, if you meet someone who is mean and mean, everyone will find it very difficult to get along with them. Being lenient to yourself and being strict to others is the truest portrayal of mean people. They often use the sharpest words to judge the lives of others, but they lower their standards for themselves. And such people also have four manifestations, through which you can judge whether others are mean people. 1. Indifference

The most direct manifestation is indifference, especially when one has very poor emotional ability. This is what people often refer to as empathy. People who can empathize with others are definitely not mean people. Mean people often turn a blind eye to the miserable plight of others, and do not put themselves in other people's shoes to consider problems, as if everything has nothing to do with them. Although this saves a lot of trouble, it is also difficult to make close friends. 2. Unforgiving words

For a mean person, there is another adjective called acerbic. The way of speaking is usually sarcastic, and the words are usually sarcastic. In fact, for others, such verbal ridicule is also a kind of harm, which often touches people's pain points and brings psychological discomfort to others. To use today's Internet terminology to describe it, it is like lemon essence. Her words are always weird and make people feel very uncomfortable. 3. Selfishness

Selfish, all things are considered based on self-centeredness, and never care about the feelings of others. They will always put the most critical eye on it. and the most vitriolic language used towards others. Facing such people, whether as colleagues, friends or family members, is very unbearable, so loneliness often accompanies them. 4. Narrow-mindedness

Narrow-mindedness and stinginess are also one of the main manifestations of mean people. Whether it's an unintentional joke or a small detail in life, they will always be upset. When dealing with such people, it always feels like they are living in a negative emotion. Even towards some well-intentioned people, they are extremely aggressive.