My husband's family is very unhappy because I have never given birth to a son. What should I do?

The phenomenon of son preference has existed since ancient times. However, that's because in ancient times, the main labor force was men, and women could only take care of their babies at home, so this phenomenon occurred. But now that the labor force has been liberated, there is a movement for equality between men and women. So the idea of son preference has been eliminated a lot, but in some places, it still exists. There are many old people who have this preference for boys over girls.

And now you have this problem, that is, the mother-in-law's son preference is particularly serious. There is almost no solution to this problem, even if there is a way to ease this relationship. However, there is basically no way to completely solve this contradiction unless a boy or a mother-in-law changes her mind.

From ancient times to the present, we all think that boys are tools to carry on the family line, and girls are married daughters after all, and the spilled water can't be collected, so people in China will have this idea. If a family has no boys, it is tantamount to farewell.

And your mother-in-law's house is now because of this problem, thinking that the house may be lost, so I am not reconciled. Then you should try to solve this problem with your husband as soon as possible. If a boy can be born as soon as possible, that is the best solution, and everything is solved. But the problem of having boys and girls is not up to you. This is determined by people and cells in the body, so it still depends on God's will.

My family used to be like this. My mother's husband was my sister. Then, after three or four years, I was born. When I gave birth to my sister, my grandparents never went into the ward to see my mother. However, after I was born, my grandparents immediately came to be caring and attentive. So having boys can directly solve these problems.

If there are really no boys, then communicate with your husband and let him communicate with his mother-in-law. Let them all know that it's different now. Now girls can recruit men into the house without shame, so now girls can carry on the family line like boys. I hope your mother-in-law's family can understand.

My aunt's house, the situation is similar to yours. However, his home is different from yours.

It is my uncle who is chasing my aunt. When I started chasing, menstruation always disagreed with my uncle's pursuit. Because aunt is several years older than uncle.

However, my uncle once drank pesticides to prove his determination. Finally, my aunt was moved and lived with my uncle. They have been together for more than 20 years, but they have never quarreled about anything. They are very loving.

They also wanted to have a boy, but they gave birth to three girls. In the end, there was no way to accept the reality, but now the girls have grown up and feel that their family is actually very happy. In fact, I am still very happy without boys. My uncle is still so concerned about my aunt, and my aunt's mother-in-law is also very kind to my aunt. I have never given birth to a boy.

So to solve this problem, either have a boy or change the thinking of the husband's family. Only these two methods can fundamentally solve the problem.