In relationships, why should women never contact each other every day?

What are the signs that a woman loves a man?

Usually, they stick to each other all the time, and have endless topics to talk about and love words to say 24 hours a day.

In the eyes of many girls, keeping in touch with their lover every day is the sweetest expression of love. As everyone knows, those emotions that are very passionate at the beginning often do not have enough energy to maintain love in the later stage. ,

Just like a marathon, if you push too hard at the beginning, you will lose strength in the middle, and you will stagnate due to lack of physical strength at the end.

So, love is not afraid of developing too slowly, but it is afraid that you will use all your strength in the beginning, and then you will no longer have the energy to develop each other's love, thus allowing it to develop in the worst direction.

The most ideal state of love is like a long stream of water. Although there are not too many waves, it is better than being stable. Therefore, for women, even if they really miss each other, they should not spend all day with each other. Contact the other party.

1. Contacting too frequently will make each other lack of freshness

In "Ode to Joy", Manager Bai only expressed a little affection for Qiu Yingying, but Qiu Yingying on the other side couldn't hold it back. Containing the ecstasy in her heart, even if people around her tried to persuade her to stay rational, she still ignored it.

Later, Manager Bai met Qiu Yingying for dinner several times and easily took her under his wing. From then on, Qiu Yingying gave her heart to her, giving unconditionally and taking the initiative unconditionally.

Is this good? The answer is no, because Qiu Yingying was too proactive and made Manager Bai lose the challenge and the desire to conquer. How could he expect the other party to continue to spend time on him?

Research shows that the novelty between people only has a shelf life of two to three months, and this is based on the fact that both parties have not yet understood each other.

Therefore, if couples contact each other too frequently and both parties know all of each other’s preferences prematurely, then the shelf life of novelty will be forcibly shortened.

The reason why a relationship is charming is because each other makes the other person feel beautiful with the blessing of freshness and unique time.

Dong Qing once said this: The best love is not like a flame, but like water, because water can flow forever. ?

Love is not all established by frequent contact. Moderate chatting will increase the intimacy between each other, but once it gets out of control, it will make each other fall into the trap of "looking at each other and hating each other" earlier. Awkward situation.

2. Love without a sense of proportion can easily lead to conflicts

01) What is the most taboo thing between men and women in relationships?

Sincerity plays an important role in all types of interpersonal relationships. It represents trust, and the sublimation of relationships between people relies on mutual trust to continue to be maintained.

However, there are always some people in life who take low emotional intelligence as sincerity.

For example, relying on your boyfriend's kindness to you, you start to lose your temper at him unscrupulously;

Knowing that your boyfriend loves you, so you break up with your boyfriend once he makes you unhappy. Blackmail;

Under the guise of love, you occupy the other person's private space without scruples, and require the other person to respond to your messages instantly at all times, even in the dead of night.

The result of this is that boys often cannot bear the oppression of girls on their personal space, and then choose to break up.

02) A girl’s disappointment never comes overnight, and a boy’s breakup is not just a whim, but many straws that break the camel’s back, eventually forming a vicious result in which quantity turns into quality.

So, the most taboo thing between men and women is a lack of sense of proportion.

Zhou Guoping once said this: If sincerity is not targeted and measured, it will become a joke. ?

Even couples who have been together for many years need to retain their own space, let alone couples who have not yet been able to get married.

Neither far nor close, respecting each other’s private space is the best way for love to exist. Even if you love someone deeply, you must give relative freedom.

3. A woman’s reserve is the most valuable business card

For men, more expensive girls are often more attractive, but expensive here is not Simply refers to the heaviness accumulated through various luxury goods.

It refers more to nobility and connotation. It is due to one's own value conditions that prevent oneself from giving in to love casually. It is a kind of reserve that makes people feel distant but not indifferent at all.

For reserve, Bacon explained it this way. He said: "Be careful but have room for it, be generous but not lose the general, so that you can move freely." ?

Some girls are not ignorant of the importance, but because they have tasted sweetness for the first time, they are dazzled by the short-term happiness and are unable to make correct judgments. They think that the faster they invest in love, the more they can gain. More.

But for men, due to the "scarcity effect", people tend to maintain long-term enthusiasm for things that are of higher value or are difficult to obtain.