Original thoughts after watching "Another Dream"

? Rather than saying that love is a bitter medicine, it is better to say that love is like coffee.

? When it’s sweet, it’s like cappuccino. You won’t get tired of it no matter how you drink it, and there’s still a milky aroma that lingers in your nose;

? When you’re frustrated, there’s no added sugar. Pure black coffee without milk makes you feel bitter in your heart after just one sip, which makes you confused for a moment:

? I wonder if the coffee is too bitter, which makes your heart feel bitter too? Or is your heart too bitter, so the coffee you drink makes you feel even more bitter?

? No one likes the pain of love, and no one can endure the pain of love, but impressive love is painful most of the time.

For example, in the love story in the TV series adapted from Qiong Yao's novel, one person always loves that person, and that person loves this person, with another person in the middle.

? The love in "Wangfu Cliff" is like this, the love in "Huanzhugege" is like this, and the love in "Another Dream Behind the Curtain" is even more like this.

? Zi Ling loves Chu Lian, and Chu Lian loves Zi Ling. Just when Chu Lian asked Lu Ping to come out and prepare to make it clear, Lu Ping had a car accident and had her limb amputated. Chu Lian could not help but feel guilty. Do not marry Luping.

In order to escape, Ziling hurriedly married Fei Yunfan, whom she had not yet fallen in love with. At that time, many people must have felt that Ziling was bitter, right?

? Because Fei Yunfan was married, and in the minds of many people, Fei Yunfan was a rich playboy.

? For Ziling’s mother, Fei Yunfan is not only older than Ziling, but also a bit unreliable.

To be honest, I don’t like Chu Lian very much, I like Fei Yunfan.

? I don’t think it’s bitter for Zi Ling to marry Fei Yunfan. I think it’s Lu Ping who is bitter. She is such a proud, pursuing and ideal woman, but she married someone who doesn’t love her. man.

? The most important thing is that this man not only doesn't love her, but also doesn't understand her.

Although Luping's car accident was an accident and was not entirely Chu Lian's or Zi Ling's responsibility, Chu Lian's deception and Zi Ling's concealment were real and undeniable.

? Therefore, even if their reason is that they do not want to hurt Luping, the harm will not cease to exist because of deception and concealment. They are even more harmful than confession.

? Therefore, when everyone thinks that Lu Ping is scary, that she is harsh, narrow-minded, jealous, and not one ten thousandth as good as Zi Ling, I feel that both the people in the show and the The audience was a little unfair to Lu Ping.

After learning that the person Chu Lian loved was her biological sister, Luping felt betrayed.

? Moreover, this betrayal was double. She not only lost Chu Lian's love, but also lost the sister she had always liked. She could not accept such facts and results, so she complained, She hates it.

? If Chu Lian told her frankly that he liked her sister, she might still not be able to accept it at that time, but at least she would not marry him and live in a fictitious marriage. .

? Not to mention that after marriage, she would not find out that Chu Lian loved someone else, and that someone else was not an outsider, but her biological sister-Zi Ling.

? The reason why she was able to marry Chu Lian was because of his guilt. She thought it was a kind of charity.

? Chu Lian’s charity, Zi Ling’s charity, she felt like a joke, everyone sympathized with her.

? God knows, as proud as she is, the last thing she needs is sympathy and pity from others. What she wants to marry is a man who truly loves her.

? Personally, I feel that cheating is not only physical betrayal, but also mental betrayal.

? Moreover, spiritual betrayal is more hurtful and cruel.

? Because physical betrayal may be impulsive, but spiritual betrayal will not be a behavior that is influenced by foreign objects or bewitched for a while.

? And, from beginning to end, he knew clearly who the person in his heart was and who he really wanted to be with.

? So, even if Chu Lian and Lu Ping were not married at that time, Chu Lian still had the right to choose someone else;

? Even if Chu Lian loved Zi Ling at that time, not Lu Ping, but everyone knows that he and Lu Ping are boyfriend and girlfriend.

In particular, the parents of both parties tacitly believed that the two would get married in the future and planned to hold an engagement banquet for them.

? What is hateful about Chu Lian is not that he fell in love with Ziling, but that he was indecisive.

? He knew clearly who he loved, and he knew clearly that the person Ziling loved was him, but he chose to date Luping and became boyfriend and girlfriend with Luping. In the end, he felt guilty because of Married Luping.

? That's all. After marriage, he still couldn't let go of Zi Ling. He didn't completely delete the past between him and Zi Ling, but left those things in the computer, giving Luping a chance to learn about him. There is someone else in my heart.

? If a person really wants to be a good wife or husband, no matter how much he loves another person, when he is ready to get married, he should say goodbye to the past completely and not let the past happen. Hurt the people around you now.

? Ziling did this very well.

? Even though she realized in the end that she had fallen in love with Fei Yunfan unknowingly, from the day she chose to marry Fei Yunfan, she was ready to let go of the past, let go of Chu Lian, and follow Fei Yunfan. Fei Yunfan lived a good life.

After returning to China, he only treated Chu Lian as his brother-in-law and did not want to get too entangled with him.

In her heart, her sister is more important than Chu Lian. She doesn’t want to lose her sister more than Chu Lian.

To be honest, although I mentioned Lu Ping the most in this article and complained about Lu Ping, I actually like Zi Ling more and feel that I have many similarities with her.

? For example, we all like to write short messages about our moods, we all love to dream, and sometimes we all feel that we are ugly ducklings that not many people will notice, etc.

? Watching her on TV is like seeing the self in the soul, feeling envious, fascinated, and regretful.

? Ziling has Fei Yunfan, but I don’t;

? Ziling can go as far as Provence, but I have never even been out of Yangjiang;

? Ziling can happily run and jump among the flower beds, letting her long hair fly in the wind. I can only sit in an electric wheelchair and watch others run and jump.

? If I were healthy and not disabled, I often think, I would be able to live like Ziling, right?

? My physical condition is worse than that of Luping. I am forever trapped in a house with four walls. Without the help of my relatives, I cannot carry out basic daily life normally.

? This is why I can understand Luping. We all don’t want to be sympathized with, pitied, and want true love.

? However, the ideal is very full, the reality is very skinny, many things, many times are not satisfactory.