I asked my boyfriend to empty my shopping cart, and the money spent was deducted from the bride price. Why did he refuse?

It is said that we should not pay too much attention to material things in our feelings. After all, when two people are together, it is more important to talk about feelings. Feelings maintained by material things are not necessarily strong.

Last year's shopping festival lasted for more than 2 days, which caused many man-made disasters. Many people bought it in buy buy for a while, but they didn't borrow money until they paid the final payment.

I received a share from a friend. Let's have a look.

Wang Ning (pseudonym) just returned to the rental house from work, and his girlfriend Vivi (pseudonym) made all kinds of attentions, and Wang Ning's heart suddenly jumped. It must be bad for his girlfriend to be so soon.

Sure enough, just after Wang Ning took a shower, Vivi leaned in and introduced various products to Wang Ning. Wang Ning knew that his girlfriend was going to buy something during the shopping festival.

I've been with my girlfriend for two years. My girlfriend goes shopping like crazy at this time of year, and Wang Ning knows it well.

However, when Wang Ning opened his girlfriend's shopping cart, Wang Ning was a little confused, and all these things his girlfriend bought cost more than 1, yuan in advance.

Then you can't spend tens of thousands of dollars on the last payment. You don't even have a monthly salary of 1, yuan. If your girlfriend shops here once, her savings for half a year will be gone.

For the sake of their future, Wang Ning advised his girlfriend Vivi to buy a little more. Every year, she bought so many things that the wardrobe at home could not hold them.

Then, his girlfriend Vivi said that she had chosen this for a long time, and it was not enough to buy some clothes. Did Wang Ning not love herself?

this * * * is only tens of thousands of dollars. If it's a big deal, it will be deducted from the bride price for marrying yourself in the future. Just consider it as an advance payment.

hearing this sentence, Wang Ning's heart suddenly became a nameless fire. Every time Vivi asked himself to spend money, he used this sentence to motivate himself.

We have been together for more than two years, and my girlfriend Vivi has paid all kinds of "advance" bride price. Roughly speaking, it is estimated that it is almost 2, yuan, but getting married in Wang Ning's hometown is only tens of thousands.

The bride price paid in advance by his girlfriend Vivi is enough for Wang Ning to find several wives, and what makes Wang Ning feel most uncomfortable is that Vivi has no intention of marrying himself.

Wang Ning got paid recently, but the insurance cost is 5, yuan. If he pays his girlfriend Vivi in advance, his insurance will be cut off.

However, under Wang Ning's coaxing, his girlfriend Vivi not only didn't understand herself, but also wanted to pay the bride price in advance, without thinking about their future at all.

Looking at his aggressive girlfriend, Wang Ning was suddenly disappointed with this relationship. After Wang Ning angered his girlfriend, he chose to break up.

Feelings must be based on love. If it doesn't feel right, stop loss in time.

Obviously, in the relationship between Wang Ning and Vivi, Wang Ning is thinking about their future, while Vivi is holding a playful attitude.

It can be seen from such unreasonable demands as advance bride price that Vivi doesn't respect this relationship at all and doesn't value it.

If you really care, Vivi won't do this kind of advance bride price, which will make Wang Ning see himself clearly and put his future position at risk.

When two people are together, there will always be different opinions. When there is a contradiction, it is necessary to communicate more. It is what every couple should do to manage their feelings well.

both men and women, since they have chosen, should be responsible for this relationship and do their best for the future of this relationship.

Just like Wang Ning and Vivi, one is trying to work hard, but the other is trying his best to consume the future. Such feelings can't last long.

Don't choose to tolerate and give in blindly. You should have a bottom line in life, and there are more principles and bottom lines in marriage, so as to protect your feelings.

It's very important to keep good communication between lovers. Many problems in relationships are caused by poor communication. Solving the communication problems between two people will solve more than half of the problems in relationships.