My parents want to live at home, but my husband doesn't agree. My wife drives her in-laws out of the house in a rage. What do you think of this?

Yanling and her husband met at a friend's house, and they are very fond of each other. Later, their friends set them up. The conditions of Yanling's family and her husband's family are similar, and they are not very good. Friends say this is the right match, and both parents are quite satisfied.

Because the conditions of both parties are not very good, the wedding room was bought together. They each paid 600,000 yuan and bought a set of three bedrooms and one living room. Two people's names are written on the real estate license. Not long after the marriage, my in-laws moved to my son's daughter-in-law's house, saying it was more lively to live with them.

Yanling wanted to be alone, but after her in-laws moved in, she couldn't live any longer and was very unhappy. But my husband is very filial, so he has to let his in-laws live with them, saying that the conditions of the house where his in-laws used to live are too poor. Yanling doesn't like it, but she can't help it. She can't kick her in-laws out!

After in-laws live in Yanling, there is often friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Yanling really wants to live apart from her in-laws. But her husband didn't agree, and her in-laws refused to move, so she had to put up with it.

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Half a year later, Yanling's mother fell ill and stayed in the hospital for more than a month. When she was discharged from the hospital, Yanling took her to her father's house to take care of her. She discussed with her husband in advance, because her parents' home is too far away from hers, and it is inconvenient for her to come and go. After all, she has to work!

My husband didn't say anything at the time. He thinks Yanling is just an expression. I didn't expect Yan Ling to really take her in-laws home later. A house with three bedrooms and one living room has become one for Yanling and her husband, one for her in-laws and one for her in-laws.

Although there will be contradictions when there are more people living, it is barely possible for everyone to accommodate. But husband and mother-in-law don't want to. The mother-in-law has been putting pressure on her son, who put pressure on Yan Ling to send her parents back to their hometown.

At first, Yanling said to send her mother back when she was better. But later, her husband urged her every day, and she was very angry and said, "Why can your parents live here and my parents can't?" ? Your parents have lived here all the time, and mine only for a while. Why not? "

The husband said, "You married me, not me. Of course, the daughter-in-law will live with her in-laws, but how can her in-laws live with her son-in-law? I'm not a son-in-law. Send them back quickly, it is inconvenient for so many people to squeeze together. "

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Yanling was very angry and said, "don't forget that we bought this house together. I have half of it, not your parents' house." My parents live in my house now, and you have no right to drive them away. "

"You bought this house voluntarily. Anyway, you married me. I will only marry you, not your parents. Please let them go. " The husband said unreasonably.

"Well, go, but your parents have to go." Yanling said, angrily packed up her parents' things and drove her in-laws out.

Later, the two divorced because of this. Yanling felt that such a selfish man had better break up with him earlier. So although her husband didn't want a divorce, she insisted on a divorce and the house was sold.

Husband and wife can buy a house together, the man's parents can live, and the woman's parents can naturally live. Husband and wife are equal. If the man insists on being strong with the woman, it will only end in divorce. In fact, since we are in-laws, we should understand and understand each other. Old people try not to disturb the lives of young couples unless there are special circumstances.