Why sometimes I tell the truth, but others don't believe what I said is right, and they always think what he said is right?

If someone asks you, do you like to hear the truth? Maybe you will say, of course, the truth, don't listen to lies?

It is said that this is also the reason. But when someone really tells you the truth and tells you your mistake, your heart will inevitably feel uncomfortable again.

There has been a saying since ancient times that a mentor is a good friend, but sometimes, when you are outspoken to your friends, or when your friends are outspoken to you, we tend to get angry. Even if the other person is right, you may not realize it. Even if you realize your shortcomings, you will be angry because the other person has not given you enough face.

When we were young, we often thought that we were the best people in the world. In the face of other people's criticism, we often regard it as provocative, critical and unreasonable, and rarely examine our mistakes quietly.

I remember ten years ago, I worked in a company. At that time, at every meeting, colleagues praised the boss beyond measure. I'm the only one who talks foolishly about things at work, because I really can't say those disgusting compliments.

Gradually, I found it difficult for sincere people to stay in this company. On the contrary, all that remained were good flatterers, and then I left there.

Not long after I left, it was reported that the boss of that company had been assassinated by those recognized villains in his own company, with a tragic ending. But aren't those sycophants just what the boss likes?

Looking back, since childhood, who dares to tell the truth to himself and criticize himself the most? It is our parents.

Which parent is not ambitious? What parents don't want their children to succeed in the future? Similarly, those who criticize you for telling you the truth today are doing you good.

Everyone likes to hear words of affirmation and praise, which is why there is an old saying called "Advice when most is unpleasant".

In fact, the person who is really responsible for you will tell you the truth and point out your mistakes. People who treat you sincerely will criticize you, and those who are willing to worry about labor, teach you and help you make progress will criticize you.

In fact, many of our parents, relatives and friends reminded us from the beginning. At that time, maybe we thought to ourselves, "What a waste of language! Such a simple truth seems to be unknown to everyone. "

Maybe I closed myself up at that time, and I didn't know I was wrong until I was cheated.

The so-called good medicine tastes bitter! It's really hard to hear others talk to you these days and criticize your growth and perfection!

Hearing the truth and being criticized, first of all, is the performance of being concerned, which shows that you are still very popular, and someone cares about you when something goes wrong.

They can make you take fewer detours, quickly get out of the shadow of life or work, and easily move towards a normal life. The more you are criticized, the fewer mistakes you make, the faster you make progress and the faster you grow.

Tell you another story!

There is a fable that a long time ago, lies and truth bathed by the river. Wash the lies first, put on the real clothes and leave, but the truth refuses to wear lies. Later, in people's eyes, only lies in real clothes are hard to accept the naked truth.

So in this way, people's hearts are really complicated. Because telling the truth often offends people, there are fewer and fewer friends who tell the truth. Everyone generally likes to say: yes, yes, yes.

And those who only like to listen to good things are like lying, and lying by themselves is also forcing others to lie. For example, ask others: Do you love me and miss me? Stupid people say they don't love you, whether you like it or not, they will lie to you.

People who often praise you are not your friends, but people who want to get your benefits. Those who risk offending you and tell you your shortcomings are your true friends.

And those who don't like to hear the truth, most of his friends are liars.

People who are happy when they say yes and disgusted when they hear the truth are doomed to live in deception and being deceived. Tell the truth, he said that you hurt him and hate you; I also think that a liar is his confidant, and this is the biggest failure in life.

The process of accepting opinions is actually a process of people's ideological confrontation, a process of changing their world outlook, outlook on life and values, a process of moving from self-denial to new affirmation, and a process of sublimation of ideas in baptism.

In this process, we can learn from our mistakes, then draw nutrition from our criticism, and gradually move towards maturity and success.

Strictness is love, and looseness is harm.

Criticism is a kind of strictness, so criticism itself is a kind of love, a kind of high-level love. Only those who dare to accept criticism and blame and face up to their weaknesses can correct their shortcomings.

Therefore, you are a great man who can point out your shortcomings bluntly. Those who flatter you all day and often praise you to the sky are often the ones who are really watching your jokes. Be self-aware and don't dance with it, or you will fall badly!

Once someone tells you the truth, you must cherish it.