You can’t wake up someone who pretends to be asleep, and you can’t move someone who doesn’t love you.

Article/Southern Wind

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Two days ago, I talked about tourism with the previous minister. After that, he asked me how to return the money. I don’t have a boyfriend, so I say you are a single nobleman, and you are happy being single. Later, I asked him: "If a person is nice to you, will you accept him?"

He said: "Whether a person is nice to you depends on whether you like him or not. Two different things." I nodded and said yes.

After a long time, he asked me: "Am I not good to her?" I smiled to lighten the mood, forgetting that it was indeed a difficult thing.

When I was a freshman, the senior was the head of our department and he liked my roommate Mo Mo. I have the best relationship with Mo Mo, so I know many things.

The senior is the kind of dedicated person, and Mo Mo is the free and easy person. If you like it, you like it, and if you don’t like it, you don’t like it. Not long after the freshman year, he started to pursue Mo Mo like crazy. He almost didn't hold up a banner at the entrance of the college to say that he liked Mo Mo. But Mo Mo didn't buy it and was even angry, so the senior changed the strategy to move her.

I remember, Mo Mo had stomach problems. One time Mo Mo had a stomachache, and the senior immediately came from the farthest west to the east here to deliver stomach medicine to Mo Mo. You must know that the senior was so lazy that he even asked us, the clerks, to bring him cold medicine when he had a cold.

My senior is used to going to bed early, and Mo Mo likes to stay up late and read novels. Many times I looked for my seniors when I couldn't sleep, so the seniors also started staying up late. It hasn't changed yet.

When school first started, the minister asked us to do some planning. We didn’t know anything about it and we didn’t know how to do it. The senior said calmly: "Go to Baidu by yourself." The next day, he took the computer to the coffee shop and taught Momo step by step how to plan.

Who hasn’t tried his best to be nice to someone?

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"There are times in your life that you must have, but there are times in your life that are not available, so don't force it." The senior said this sentence inevitably sentimentally.

The senior always thought that if you work hard, you will get results, so even if you silently rejected him again and again, he still did not give up on being good to her.

He tried his best to please Mo Mo. Even though it was very cold on Christmas Eve, he still came from the west. On the surface, he gave us apples, but in fact, he moved Mo Mo. That day he gave Momo her favorite Ferrero Rocher chocolates, and a large box containing a long letter he wrote.

He still ordered takeout for Mo Mo. Knowing that Mo Mo didn’t like to go out, he ordered her the kind that was sent upstairs. Mo Mo couldn't get up to have breakfast, so he bought milk one box at a time and left it with the aunt in the dormitory to pick up when Mo Mo went out.

Last May Day, Mo Mo and I went to Changsha. After he found out, he told me that he wanted to give Momo a surprise. I have already bought candles, and when the time comes, I will place a heart shape under our hotel and ask me to cooperate with him. He said Momo doesn’t envy those people on the Internet who put out candles to express their love. This time I will give him one too.

But Momo was never moved by it.

I kept asking my senior if it was worth it, and he said that for the person you like, it’s worth it no matter what.

But can you move someone who doesn’t love you in this way? Or do you want her to look back at you, maybe you are the right person? Do you think you can wake up someone who is pretending to sleep like this?

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During the National Day in my freshman year, I went to Yuelu Mountain in Changsha with my classmates. After returning, someone confessed to me. Of course I didn't agree as I had always regarded him as a friend.

So he bribed my roommate and was always able to track my whereabouts. He used it to send things, buy gifts, and chase girls. When I'm in a bad mood, I'll send you long messages and find jokes for me. My roommates all said that this guy was so nice that I might as well just agree to it.

The next morning I told him that I didn’t like him, and he said it didn’t matter, he could do a lot of things for me. So when it rains, the first thing he thinks of is always me, and he always gives me an umbrella whether I have one or not. Remember what I like to eat and what I don’t like to eat.

At that time, he liked Liu Tong very much, so he bought all Liu Tong’s books and gave them to me. He is a top student, so he always tells me what are the key points and which ones will definitely pass the exam.

Later, I lied to him that I had a boyfriend. While he wished me happiness, he was not willing to be nice to me.

It is said that the authorities are confused and those on the lookout know clearly, but why am I not moved at all?

It’s really not that he is not persistent enough or that he is not good enough.

I have seen him waiting in the wind and rain, seen him being led by my emotions, and seen him do many things.

You see Shen Congwen likes Zhang Zhaohe so much, hasn’t Zhang Zhaohe never been moved by it? Even if you get married and have children, won’t you live an unhappy life in the end? How can you use emotion to seek love? The person who loves you doesn’t need you to spend any thought.

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My senior told me that if you don’t like a person, it will be useless no matter how much he does for you. If you don't like him, it will be useless no matter how hard he persists.

Even if one day you are moved by his kindness to you, this is not love. Even if you are with him, you will not be happy.

Recently, someone keeps saying to me: "It doesn't matter if you don't like someone, as long as he treats you well, you will like him.

Why do you pretend to be asleep if you can't wake him up? Human? Why is she still sleeping even if you turn on the loudspeaker?

Why can’t you move someone who doesn’t love you?

Because, she doesn’t have you in her heart.