What if the family joked about drifting north?

There are indeed many young people who choose to live in first-tier cities like Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. However, it is difficult to live well in these big cities, because you are not from this land and want to get married here. If you don't have connections, your background is even more difficult than going to heaven.

Therefore, those drifters who have no background can only rely on their own efforts to achieve the life they want. If you want to survive in the tide of drifting north, if you have no background, you can only rely on diligence and opportunity.

If you are a lazy person by nature, then I still suggest that you go back to your hometown and live a comfortable life. This is not criticism. Actually, it is also a good choice. What do people live for? Isn't it just for happiness? But once you decide to drift north, you must make up your mind to work hard and not be greedy. In this city, find your own position and constantly look for opportunities to improve yourself.

In a big city, there is no background, so we should try our best to create the background, improve our social skills and develop our personality. Make friends and make yourself the object that others are willing to satisfy. At the same time, be a person full of positive energy, don't get lost by the rules of life, find your own goals, and keep working towards them.

In fact, in real life, there are many self-made drifters in the north, and they all develop well in the end. This may be an opportunity hidden in your casual making friends and helping others. Maybe these machines will help you one day.

Although some people with background will have a higher chance of success, it is not completely impossible if you have no background. There is a good saying, it depends on human effort. As long as you are willing to stick to your goal, you will be firm, and one day God will take care of you.