Let children know how to reflect on themselves and don't judge others casually.

Children always express their ideas directly and frankly, and never consider whether their words and deeds will hurt others. Parents can't simply put things off with a childish word, and they can't ignore the requirement of speaking appropriately for their children because of their young age. A child who knows how to reflect on his own shortcomings, does not comment on others at will, and laughs at others can win the love of others. The child is well bred and should learn self-discipline and introspection.

If parents don't care about this shortcoming of their children, on the one hand, they may be hurt by other people's comments, on the other hand, they may unconsciously learn to comment on others at will, which will affect the friendly communication between children and friends and have a bad influence on children.

Parents should also restrain their behavior in education. If parents have the habit of judging and mocking others at will, children will easily learn to describe others in hard words, which will lead to the problem of being mean and joking. Everyone has shortcomings to some extent. Some people can reflect on themselves at any time. After discovering your own shortcomings, bravely admit it and try to correct and improve it. Then, his shortcomings will be less and less, a little more and more, and more and more parents who want to cultivate their children's family education ability can learn from them.

1. Don't directly blame the child's mistakes.

2. Let the children bear the consequences of making mistakes.

3. Let children realize that hurting others will be condemned.

The ability of self-reflection can promote children's faster growth. Children will also reflect on themselves before commenting on others. Will this behavior bring harm to others? If a child has mastered the ability of self-reflection, it means mastering the secret recipe of self-improvement and healthy growth.