I like music. I play the guitar. My father says that people who play the guitar are bad.

you're really stupid. your father's words are not nice, but he's not careless.

There are many children who play rock and roll, and it is an indisputable fact that they don't learn to fool around well. Many children flaunt learning guitar and musical instruments to cultivate their sentiments or have a hobby to cheat their parents' trust. In fact, most of them are trying to cheat girls' favor. I think I can play bands, rock and roll, get tattoos, smoke and drink until I die ... These are cool and unconventional lives. People who really like guitar are from the heart. As for those who mess around, I really don't know what it is for. Your father is most worried that you will become that way. If you really go that way, you will basically ruin your original intention of loving guitar.

No matter how classical it is, your father may have seen With You. He saw the story of his father's madness in order to cultivate a master musician, and he wavered. He thought it was a road of no return. What kind of success should he learn, Lang Lang? Success? Compared with the uncreative mechanical performance with a whip, what is this success? Are such children a minority in China? Your father loves you and doesn't want you to be a fool full of mixed feelings of anger and gratitude under the stick. How much your father hopes that you can achieve the goal he failed to achieve, but it is very selfish and excessive. He only hopes that you can study hard and take a "right" road, take an examination of a serious university, learn a skill to eat for a lifetime, and live a peaceful and happy life. This is really true. Your father is a master, much higher than those gorgeous guitar masters. I feel very sorry that you can hardly see how much love he celebrates here.

All you want now is for your parents to disappear, leave you alone, and let yourself die. That's a stupid idea. Run away from home, where to go, come to Beijing, come to Shanghai ... The same level as the guitar master will be eliminated in these places. How many complete songs will you have?

your environment is bad? Not at all, really

I'll tell you a way to solve the current dilemma:

1. Tell your parents that you really like guitar, but after thinking about it for a long time, you still think that studying and working are the most important things

2. Stick to practicing the piano, which is your chosen hobby. Don't wait for people here to see that you are not the material to play the piano after one or two years.

3. Are you really quarrelling with your family because of the guitar? If you just use the guitar as an excuse and leave your parents to play with netizens and pick up girls freely, you can start taking the nerve drugs prescribed for you now, and it won't work if you say more unintentionally. I don't know, anyway, it's useless to stutter, and consultation is king!

The so-called generation gap communication is all nonsense. To put it bluntly, your father doesn't know what you want, and you don't understand what your father asks you. It's as simple as that.

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For added: If it's not what I said, just keep learning, seize the time to learn ... There's nothing to ask. Everyone is not much worse off than you. They all took the time to learn.