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My husband is always crying poor. How can I change him?

Men cry in front of you. I think there are several situations. Or he is really poor. Limited economic ability, not much money. I don't have enough money to be a girlfriend. Some people are at a loss. So he always rambles, hoping that the other party can understand him and try not to spend money together. In the family burden, his parents or brothers and sisters at home suffer from incurable diseases. He doesn't want to waste money to treat his parents and family and reduce all expenses. Therefore, I think these love expenses are too extravagant for me. But willing to give up love. Therefore, we can only cry for each other and try to reduce unnecessary expenses.

So-called? When things get difficult, they sing. . In fact, a man's crying for poverty represents a hidden complaint, that is, in this relationship, he feels that he has received less than he has paid, which is unfair. From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, men will pay relatively more material value in a relationship, and gain ornamental value (the beauty of women) and emotional value (the gentle comfort and appreciation of women). ).)。 In the face of her boyfriend's extreme poverty, perhaps this topic can consider whether he ignores her feelings too much or whether her appearance makes her dissatisfied. But in any case, this unfair feeling is a huge hidden danger to your relationship, which is equivalent to telling you that your boyfriend is not satisfied with you!

Secondly, we can also look at a person's behavior pattern from his crying poor behavior. Judging from the normal social role orientation, men are more inclined to show or boast their own resources than to show their own shortcomings. However, crying for poverty is actually an obvious manifestation of insufficient material resources. In fact, men who are more competitive and responsible will take various actions to win more resources when facing the fact that resources are scarce, rather than staying in verbal complaints. However, people who like to complain are mostly people who lack self-esteem and action ability.

This is a profound question because we think about why men say they are poor. Obviously, every man has a heroic dream in his heart, dreaming that he can be a hero, especially in front of women or people he cares about. Not only will he not say that he is poor, but he will talk less about his shortcomings and more about his strengths, such as looks, sense of humor and culture. It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.