Self-love makes people strong, and conceit makes people small.

The strength and smallness of human nature can best reflect a person's true value.

For example, some second-generation people who are idle and like to show off their families everywhere, although richer than most people, will also make some people jealous.

However, people are jealous of his family, not his ability and skills.

Even many people, in particular, look down on this pride of getting something for nothing, relying on their families and getting something for nothing.

On the other hand, some people who really work hard, no matter whether their family is good or not, no matter what their value is, what people affirm is their indomitable spirit and positive attitude towards life.

During this period, although we can't measure strength and insignificant value on that huge calligraphy and painting full of social values, morality and thoughts,

But it can leave an indelible green front in the hearts of many sober people.

The power of self-love is actually very realistic.

The word "self-love" sounds like chicken soup. Of course, on the topic of self-love, there are indeed many articles that deliberately emphasize the ideality and concept of the topic "How powerful is love".

In fact, the behavior of self-love is actually very realistic, especially for those who really love themselves. Their growth is faster and more stable than others, because self-love makes it easier for them to recognize the reality.

See yourself better.

First of all, a person who really loves himself will find a reason to love himself.

It's like a truly confident person who doesn't talk about how confident he is all day, or paralyzes himself and convinces himself in some opportunistic ways.

Because truly confident people will achieve something, it is meaningful and feasible to prove their confidence with these "evidences".

The same is true of self-love.

Secondly, people who really love themselves will consciously correct their behavior, because they need a clear reason and convincing evidence to support their self-love, not self-paralysis, not the product of self-meaning.

Therefore, people who really love themselves pay special attention to correcting their shortcomings and optimizing their behavior logic. The core purpose of all this is to find the process of "being worthy of self-love".

Therefore, interested readers will find that the word self-love sounds really emotional.

However, implementation is a very rational process:

People live, think and act, and pay attention to being down-to-earth.

Why keep your feet on the ground?

Because only the road is the road, and if there are more roads, you will know how to get there.

Why do many people shout confusion and worry that they have no choice?

With the road, I dare not step down,

Don't go if you are afraid of making mistakes, just like choking on food.

Some words, when spoken, are jokes.

Do it, but no one laughs.

Conceit makes people smaller, not because it makes people smaller.

But those who are incompetent and conceited,

It will make people find no reason to look up to them.

For example, some people, they are the top in the industry and the leading elite.

They can be conceited or modest, which are all manifested in their personality characteristics.

Will not change the gold content of their strength itself,

It is true that modesty makes people progress, but we don't know that behind conceit,

Is it an illusion caused by "conceit on the surface and modesty behind it"?

Only I can know the truth of some things.

Therefore, when we analyze the premise that conceit makes people small, we can't examine its value with arbitrary and absolute eyes.

But to get rid of the fog of appearance and see through the essence of things.

Some people have no skills. They have neither conceited capital nor any conditions to support conceit.

Then their conceit can only make them small,

In other words, they are small because of their conceit.

Conceit, which leads them not to make progress, only thinks that their stubbornness and ignorance are absolutely correct.

They don't accept any suggestions and don't know how to communicate with others to increase their knowledge and experience.

They are trapped in their own ruts, seemingly behind closed doors, and often don't even know the real appearance of the car.

Their theories are arrogant and illusory, their ideas are stubborn and groundless,

On the Internet, they are called "levers", but in reality,

Such people, often no one looks up to them,

Because of their conceit, they have no capital to be respected;

Those little thoughts hidden in my heart,

On the surface, one person performs for a group of people.

It's actually a group of people performing for one person,

No one applauded,

But some people are crazy.