"Girls with tattoos are bad girls"

My roommate Qiling is a girl who loves beauty, but she has always been worried about the scar on her leg. This scar was burned by the exhaust pipe of her father's motorcycle when she was a child. I have been following Qiling for eight years.

Because of this scar, Qiling abandoned miniskirts and shorts, and only wore pants that could cover the scar. It was a pity for her long, white and tender legs. I sigh every time I think of my scar.

Her roommate Lihua gave her an idea. Since she cared so much about the scar, why not get a tattoo to cover it up?

Unexpectedly, this was even more disgusted by Qiling: "How could I get a tattoo? I am a good girl."

Aren't all girls with tattoos good girls?

Qiling said that the thoughts she has been indoctrinated into since she was a child are that girls are not allowed to stay home in the middle of the night, they are not allowed to go to far places to play, they are not allowed to drink, smoke, have their hair dyed and permed, and they are not allowed to wear revealing clothing. Clothes and tattoos are not allowed...

"Isn't it because of the scar that you don't wear miniskirts and shorts?"

"Yes, but I wouldn't wear them without the scar. Ah."

"Why do you care so much about the scar if you don't show it at all?"

"I'm not beautiful for others to see~" Qi Ling was very playful when she said this: "I left it to myself to enjoy, hahahaha..."

The roommates said "Eh~" in unison

I did see it online There are many groups that are quite repulsive to girls' tattoos. They also unscrupulously make dirty jokes on girls. Once someone refutes them, they will point out the girl's tattoos and say: "You have that tattoo on your body, and you still think it's a joke." What kind of lady is she?"

There are also people from the older generation who have a disdainful attitude towards girls' tattoos: "What kind of tattoos do good girls have? They are just like little gangsters!"

Especially girls’ parents are more sensitive to girls’ tattoos. They may not question them in a big way, but they will also ask cautiously: “What kind of people have you been in contact with recently?”

I can’t help but ask. This brings me to a question: Are tattoos for girls really cheap?

I asked a friend who has a unicorn arm what her attitude is towards girls getting tattoos. She has a carefree personality, but I didn't expect that she would be very delicate in her answers.

She said: "Tattoos have never been a privilege for boys. Some like them, and some think they are art. Everyone with tattoos is the same as everyone else, pursuing what they want. , In fact, there is no need to point it out."

I smiled and nodded, and asked her why she got the tattoo.

She answered me to make herself stronger.

It turns out that she was often bullied by others because she was not tall and looked weak, so she thought of a way to have a unicorn arm, which might make her look smaller. Be fierce.

Sure enough, no one bullied her anymore. They all thought she had a boss who was protecting her, or thought she had become a boss.

I asked her again: "Is the effect so obvious? No one dares to bully you because of one arm?"

She turned to look at me: "Are you afraid of me? "Her eyes were staring at me, which really sent chills down my back.

I suddenly understood that it was not that everyone was afraid of her unicorn arms, but that she had never let anyone bully her again. The tattoo gave her back her confidence.

There is a girl next to me who has her boyfriend’s name tattooed on her palm and the word “1314” tattooed on her arm, which is clearly visible whenever she wears short sleeves.

Isn’t she a good girl?

How could that be? She also had no shortage of suitors, but she rejected them all for the sake of her boyfriend. She would not go clubbing, or even sit in a quiet bar.

She is responsive to her boyfriend's requests. She peels fruits and delivers them to him, gets up early to deliver breakfast, and gives her boyfriend gifts during holidays. She will blame her if her boyfriend gives her something more expensive. My boyfriend spends money randomly.

Anyone with a discerning eye can see that she loves her boyfriend to the core.

But her boyfriend still broke up with her because her boyfriend felt that she didn't need him and that he didn't look like a man in front of her.

She cried very sadly. She complained to me about how good she was to her boyfriend. She didn’t want to cause trouble to him, so she tattooed him on her palm...

I asked her Do you regret it? She nodded, and then shook her head.

"That was my whole youth."

I don't know if she will regret it later, but I think that in her youth, she should have no regrets.

Tattoos are nothing more than leaving a mark on one’s body, leaving behind beauty, leaving behind a person or an experience, or to inspire oneself. It should never be divided into men and women.

Every girl with a tattoo will have a past that is hard to remember. Now they may live and work in peace and contentment, or they may wander around the world. Even if the tattoo has been washed away, the memory carried by the tattoo will never be washed away. Lose.

Girls with tattoos may not look easy to bully, but that doesn’t mean they are bad guys who can’t learn from others. They shouldn’t wear colored glasses like this.

If you can't accept girls' tattoos, please don't show it. Please give the girls with tattoos a little love. They are just girls.