What moments in your life make you feel "son preference"?

My brother and I are two years apart. He graduated from junior high school and went to a technical school, and then he worked. I am in a junior college, and I have been promoted to undergraduate for two years. My parents have always been very kind to me and my brother.

Until my brother got married, he married his junior high school deskmate and had a very good relationship. My brother is also a very down-to-earth person, and he is also very kind to his girlfriend. After two years of marriage, I have a super cute little nephew, my male god.

I got married very late, only at the beginning of this year, and I am over 30 years old.

It happened when my boyfriend and I bought a house. This is a third-tier city and a new first-tier city. The boyfriend's family made a down payment, but it was almost the same (the boyfriend's family lived in rural areas in different cities in the same province, and he made a large part of the down payment and earned the rest himself). I can't borrow some from my parents. The house was bought before marriage, and my name was written. I bought a second-hand rough house and an intermediary.

When my brother got married, my parents gave them a house and decorated it. I bought a car with my little nephew. Anyway, that's their money. I don't care who I want to give it to. I didn't expect them to ignore it at the critical moment and refused directly. That's not bad, and I was bombed!

I know my father too well. He doesn't want to give his son grandchildren, but he wants to give his son grandchildren. Our family has been doing business for decades, and I just want bits and pieces of money. Now you give it to me, I don't want it. If you get sick or something in the future, don't call me. Go find your dear son. I wonder who took you out to dinner when you were sick. I don't know who asked for leave to take care of you in the hospital when you were sick. I wonder who bought you a mobile phone and clothes. Although all these should be done, your dear son didn't come to see you when you were ill. You said he was at work and I wasn't at work? I took a day off and paid him a week's salary. I don't know who has a wife but forgets his mother. She is so close that she doesn't come to see it once a year. She came, ate and left, and even left, she ate and took. It's not time for you to call him heartless. I really can't see anything until I meet something. I don't care about those things, as long as it doesn't make my heart cold!

I stopped talking to them, especially my dad. Since I have a grandson, my heart is boundless and unprincipled. Usually angry and quarreling with you, there is still the possibility of reconciliation. If I ignore you, it will be completely broken. They knew I was serious when they looked at me, so they called my aunt and my grandfather and told me that my whole family listened to them. My grandfather came to my house when he was over 80 years old. I was particularly sad that day. They have gone too far and are too eccentric. I am not convinced. Then my grandfather called my father names. Then I was lucky, and then they gave me money, so my boyfriend and I bought a house and took a decoration loan to decorate it. My boyfriend also paid off the mortgage, and I also took a decoration loan. Later, both of our wages went up, especially mine, and they were paid off slowly.

Later, I married my boyfriend and didn't ask for much bride price. Some people may think that your name is all over the room, so I have the nerve to ask for a bride price. Boyfriend's bride price is very high, and he needs a house and a car. We have hardly any here. My dad asked me to do it myself, saying that I just bought a house and I don't have much money. Don't ask too many questions, that's all. Anyway, I will give it to you in the end, or I don't want a bride price, but I'm afraid their family won't cherish you. Well, sometimes my dad doesn't know what to say. Finally, I asked to change the bride price for them. I knew that their family tried their best, and their family was relieved.

what can I say? I have been the boss since I was a child. I am relatively independent and have a strong personality. I am a typical Libra, and I can't tolerate any unfairness unless I don't care. You can't bully me when I'm easy to talk to. A thing must be divided equally, unless you ask me what I don't want, you can take it away, and you can't give it all to others without asking. That's impossible.

My husband always says that my mouth is hard and my heart is soft. To tell the truth, if they didn't give it to me at that time, I wouldn't let them go. After all, they are biological parents, but their hearts are unbalanced. Now my mother and I are raising a baby here, and my father also says that if I get married, I belong to someone else's house. Do you think he is looking for excitement? I said that if I got married, this would be my home, so I wouldn't go, I would live here every day and have a baby here. Father is also very helpless. My mother said that I was the only one who could control my father at home.

I also know in my heart that no one can cure anyone, and I only want you to cure them ~