I can only cry when I am sad, and no one understands my grievances. What should I do?

Everyone has grievances, especially when they can't get rid of them, but life will continue anyway.

There is such a friend y, who has a bad temper and pushes his luck. Everyone let her go when she encounters unpleasant things and try to avoid her. But day after day, year after year, her character has not improved, but has intensified, feeling that others just want to tolerate her and accommodate her. Others say that her temper is being used by people around her, which makes sense to me. Do you think she is wronged? She is not wronged, but forcibly grafted her will on others.

As a person, I have suffered a lot of grievances, both in life and at work. What I met and asked for was not always smooth sailing, but stumbling. Especially at work, I suffered a lot, but fortunately, it is a way for people to grow up.

I see many colleagues and friends around me. They are good at catering and have a glib mouth. In fact, the advantage of doing this is that they don't have too many knots. Even if they do, they will vent in laughter and slapstick, and rarely leave their grievances.

Live a good life anyway.

Cry as much as you want. Crying is a good way to vent. It's better to cry than to keep it in your heart.

After crying, you must be strong, reflect on why no one understands the grievances in your heart, find out the existence of the problem, and try to solve it.

If you can't find the reason, you can only adjust your mentality and learn to look down on everything and laugh it off. Not all pain can be shouted out, and not all grievances need to be understood by others. Life is self-aware.

People's life, every stage, every day, will have troubles, but everything will gradually get better because of your efforts. You have to believe in yourself. Try to enrich yourself and keep yourself busy, so you won't have time to think about others and take care of others. Naturally, you will live more smartly.

If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.

If you are wonderful, you can arrange it yourself.

Come on, come on, come on!

Everyone has grievances and pains, and when the mood is unbearable, they can't cry. Vent all the grievances in your heart. In the grievance, in the pain, who else can understand your mood at the moment? ? In order to survive, we must rely on ourselves. Be strong and try to go your own way.

Crying is the best emotional expression of grievances. Vent grievances and complaints about grievances, and release evil spirits in your heart, that is, avoid diseases caused by grievances; It is also a further explanation of this matter or others' understanding and discussion of the truth of this matter.

Anything can happen in the world. What's the point of being wronged? Some people don't know things and events clearly and give emotional opinions. They already know a little. Summing up is comprehensive or all, so that most people don't know the truth and all, but become comprehensive and comprehensive. You said that it is not irritating, the grievances are not wronged, and the parties are wronged. If you are wronged, you will be wronged on anyone. I can't understand it, and I want to cry. This is normal.

Grievances often occur. It is mainly for the relevant parties to treat it correctly. Treat them differently and handle them correctly; To have a good attitude, dialectical analysis to find out right and wrong, the main contradiction must be contradictory, so it is easy to grasp who is right and who is wrong. For this kind of thing or thing, especially the leaders of the unit or parents at home, we should uphold justice, seize the opportunity to deal with it correctly, and don't make things worse. This will have a negative effect on solving grievances in time, and let people see that the unit has the power of justice and leads the capable masses with justice. Let unfairness or injustice never happen. People always live and work in harmony and unity.

Sometimes it is really hard for people to feel wronged because of misunderstanding, and crying is also a way to vent. No one in this world really knows who, the pace of the times is so fast, everyone is walking at a brisk pace, and no one wants to stop and accept more information from others. When you are sad, try to vent. You can yell at an empty place, or you can talk to people, animals or things you like. Don't take it to heart, many modern teenagers are incomprehensible and depressed all the time, so don't take it to heart and keep people who feel uncomfortable away.

There is a good saying: What would you be like if everything you did could be understood by others?

It is their freedom for others to understand or not understand us, but we can't be upset because others don't understand us. After all, sometimes we don't understand others.

When you should bear something alone, you should face it bravely. After all, people can't be smooth sailing all their lives, and it is impossible for others to know everything. You have to understand that people living in this world will suffer. Only after suffering and gaining some experience will your heart become stronger and stronger.

Many times, we feel helpless and miserable because our hearts are not strong enough, or we lack a sense of security, and we need to affirm ourselves through external recognition.

If you have this mentality, it is understandable that you are not mature enough.

Only when people go through hardships and learn to leave can they develop a strong heart. When others don't understand themselves, it's better to find a place to cry and vent your sadness if you want to cry.

Overrepression is not conducive to physical and mental health. Emotions and sorrows are normal emotions of people. Only by releasing these emotions can we have a good day.

Strong people don't cry when they are sad. No one understands sadness and injustice. Teach yourself not to be wronged, but to be happy.

What if no one understands you? In terms of philosophy and contradiction, no one understands you, and you don't understand others. What should I do? You can try to understand others.

Friends don't understand you, family doesn't understand you, and people around you don't understand you. You are definitely in the minority now. Although truth is often in the hands of a few people, truth is always on the side of the majority. Because people always seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, always think and do things in a way that is beneficial to them, and truth always stands with most people, so what most people agree with is often desirable.

Put things on the table, and both sides will talk about their own reasons and find common ground, so that everyone will understand each other. But this is only the superficial way to deal with the problem, and the deeper is empathy.

You are eager for others' understanding, just find someone who can understand you. The premise of understanding is that understanding requires some wisdom, and there are few such people, or you can find a friend who is in the same boat and talk to each other.

It's okay to cry! Who can understand the feeling of not crying! Only people with dead hearts can't cry! ! !