What should I do if I confess to a girl I like and am rejected on the spot?

Love is never a personal matter, so when you express your love, being rejected by the other party may not necessarily declare the end of this relationship. Don't draw a rest in a hurry. So, how should you face this relationship?

1, don't break the relationship in a hurry.

In fact, some relationships in life begin with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't break up or give up this relationship in a hurry.

After being rejected, the first thing you have to do is to find out the reason for rejection, whether it is because your impatience has caused pressure on the other party or because your relationship has not yet reached the stage of formal love. Only when you know this can you decide what to do next.

However, in any case, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reasons and don't give up easily. If this rejection is only because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, you might as well give each other more time to get along, and maybe the clouds will disperse next time.

2, confession needs sincerity, don't use jokes to cover up your inner fear of failure.

Boys love face more, so they are always worried that they will lose face if they are rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking that if they fail, they can be said to be just joking with each other.

However, you never thought that this kind of playful expression would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling. If the other person is a careful girl, then she will definitely refuse you.

Therefore, when boys express their love, they'd better be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it belongs to the first rule. Don't give up in a hurry After all, people can change. Just because they don't have feelings for you at this stage doesn't mean they won't have feelings for you all the time.

3. Face failure calmly and maturely.

After being rejected, you seriously reflect, understand the reasons for failure, and find that the other party really only regards you as a friend, so don't be sad, let alone "belittle yourself", because love can never be obtained by force.

At this point, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, sum up the reasons for the failure, don't let negative emotions bother your life, regard this failure as a kind of learning, and you will be more confident to seize the opportunity and find your unique love when you make your next shot.