The wedding was treated as a joke.

After eight years of hard work, Qingqing finally bought his first house in full with his own ability. Eight years ago, she lived in the house of a stranger. She said that she would never forget the humiliation before the divorce. Before the divorce, she lived in her husband's house. When she got married, her parents gave her a check of 60 thousand as a dowry. It was agreed that the man would give her a bride price of 40 thousand when she got married. She was married naked, and this marriage was introduced. The other party is a middle school teacher, and the introducer is boastful, good in character and responsible enough.

The two also hit it off and talked about love vigorously. Soon Qingqing became pregnant, and the two sides happily planned the wedding.

The parents of both sides discussed that the man gave 60,000 bride price. The woman's parents asked the matchmaker to coordinate the bride price and put it on the gift money on the wedding day. The young man immediately agreed in front of his prospective father-in-law, but he went back on his word on the wedding day. So I made a joke.

The wedding was in full swing that day. The woman's wedding company came, but the man's wedding team came late. In local customs, bride price money, women's clothes, jewelry and shoes and socks are all displayed. The gift of the new son-in-law received by the woman's parents did not include a bride price of 60,000 yuan. The woman's parents asked the groom's official what this meant. They agreed to bring 60 thousand yuan as a bride price when they got married. I've already paid 40 thousand here Can't you take it out? The groom gave his parents-in-law a gold card and said, "promise me, all the money is here!" " This is 60 thousand. "

"What about the password?" Asked my mother-in-law, my father-in-law was also confused.

However, when the groom's husband was asked by his parents-in-law three times in turn what the gold card password was, the groom's husband responded with the same attitude-keeping his mouth shut.

Isn't it obvious? The groom's official broke his word at the crucial moment and was unwilling to take out 60 thousand bride price. Does he have no money? The answer is no, that year, his monthly salary was seven or eight thousand, and his job was stable. At this time, his meanness was exposed to the sun.

The woman can't break off her marriage on the spot because she is pregnant! Today, men must eat and women must get married.

At the wedding that day, the matchmaker closed a lot of black eyes. The custom of both men and women is to give the matchmaker a certain red envelope, a knife of pork and a pair of running shoes as a thank you. When eating, no one invited the matchmaker to the table, and no one thanked the matchmaker for trying his best to fix it, because the woman's family was also very angry with the matchmaker, thinking that the matchmaker did not try his best to ask the man for the bride price and let the woman make a fool of herself on the wedding day. The matchmaker was given a cold shoulder and felt greatly insulted. The matchmaker is really wronged. The matchmaker told the man in advance to let him give a bride price! The man agreed immediately, but the matchmaker didn't expect the temporary man to go back on his word. The matchmaker knows that he can't get the money from the media either. During the period when he felt like a thorn in his back, he summoned up his courage, resolutely walked to the center of the room and said the next paragraph angrily: "I wish you two a happy wedding and an early breakup!" " Instead, in an extremely angry situation, he pointed to the man and said, "Just get married and divorce, you won't be happy!"

So he strode out of the wedding scene. The audience was shocked.

When the matchmaker left, all the guests knew the inside story, the woman was humiliated and the bride cried. She intended to break off her marriage on the spot, but she was dissuaded by the guests. The marriage ended in chaos.

A year after marriage, I had a son. It is said that mothers depend on their sons. On the wedding day, the man played the villain role, and the woman's treatment naturally plummeted. The mother-in-law is cynical, and the son is critical of his wife. The man failed to get a point in his monthly salary and only gave a limited living allowance every month. After a few years, the man saved a lot of money, moved to the county seat and bought a business building, but there was no woman's name. The key is for my mother-in-law. When the man came back from the outside, it was inconvenient for his mother-in-law to open the door, so the teacher asked his mother to give his wife a key to the gate for easy access. I don't know that her mother-in-law hasn't taken it out for a long time and refused to hand over the keys in every way. She is full of grievances and dare not vent. Finally, the mother-in-law threw the key on the ground and said, "Take it! What a charity. "

This family can't stay any longer, she whispered. Once an idea comes into being, it gets out of hand. She applied for a divorce from her husband. No affair, no cheating, just uncomfortable. The grievances of these years have been accumulated in my heart, and when they broke out, they were unstoppable.

The husband was shocked, and then he thought that these years were not good for her, and he made up for it at a loss, and wanted to get all the mistakes back. I even intend to tell her my bank card password. In the future, all his money will have her share. But she has made up her mind to divorce. She knows that she can't even get custody of her children at the moment. Because she doesn't have a formal job. The child was brought up by this man. She kissed and kissed with tears in her eyes and left the man's house, as if she had made up her mind.

After the divorce, the woman went all the way to work in a bra factory in Dongguan, working 12 hours a day with a salary of 10000. Thinking of the previous difficulties, cold reception and grievances, she seemed desperate to only recognize the money! It's been eight years. In these eight years, she never took a day off, never came late and left early, and her salary remained high. After years of accumulation, she returned to her ex-husband's city and bought a commercial house in full.

After buying a house, there is still 300 thousand left, which is all her savings. She dare not ignore it. After many investigations, she opened a teahouse, which was very popular. That year, she was 37.

After a long time, I have accumulated some extra contacts. Some people saw that she was single and wanted to introduce someone to her, but she declined. She secretly went to school to see her son, who didn't know her. She put some money in her son's schoolbag and told him to take care of it. She cried several times and was very sad. I heard that his ex-husband got married again, but he was unhappy and divorced. I heard that he found another one this year. Is this what the matchmaker should say? She shuddered at the thought of the scene.

Finally, at the age of 38, she met the man in her life, who was her customer. Knowing that she was single, she visited the teahouse three times and five times, and she also understood his mind. He got divorced, and the two of them talked about it. At this age, they are willing to become a good family and live a comfortable life like normal people. The man has a successful career and some assets under his name, but he added her name on his own initiative. She thought, now that she is also a real estate person, there is nothing to be unattainable. She readily agreed and took the initiative to set up a joint bank card for the other party. Both parties know the password. Both of them are injured people and moved to be so honest with each other.

No wedding, no witnesses, no forms. They just called their parents, gave a banquet, had a lively meal with two relatives and got a marriage certificate. From then on, the harp and the voice. Two people live honestly, never hiding anything or defending each other. In-laws visit occasionally and stay for a few days, while in-laws visit irregularly and stay for a few days. There is basically no contradiction between the two sides.

She sighed, finally, became a home, no longer wandering, he lamented, finally became a home, never looking for it again.

It turns out that feelings are not allowed to be plotted, calculated or guarded. Feelings are fragile and must be cultivated well. Otherwise, some people miss a lifetime, a good marriage, the person you met among thousands of people and the person you want to meet among thousands of people. Have you calculated it? How many years of waiting and training do you need in your last life?

Cherish your feelings, be kind to them, and be gentle with the person you like, otherwise that person will turn around and it will be difficult to meet again in this life. If you don't want to leave regrets in your life, remember to bring your heart.