"No matter how good the birth is, I won't choose." Why does the post-9 s maternal words make people unable to refute?

Mothers born in the 199s who were "supportive" of a natural birth a few years ago began to refuse to have a natural birth. When people talked about the topic of natural birth, mothers born in the 199s generally replied: Yes, natural birth is really good, but I really don't choose! And this, what is going on?

a friend gave birth and sent a good news. Friends circle:

The second child is coming! Get ready to practice an angel! PS: My most correct choice is that I chose caesarean section this time. Don't ask why, just ask me!

At that time, after reading this circle of friends, Mama Yaya felt that her friends were emotional, but she didn't ask. After all, mothers who gave birth to babies should rest more.

Two days later, she came to talk to Mama Yaya on her own initiative and told the story. It turned out that she had no plans to have a second child before, but the family kept talking about it intentionally or unintentionally, and she didn't take it to heart that a child would be lonely in the future. Later, her husband said, Why don't we have another one? After thinking about it, my friend thought it was not impossible, and Takuya got pregnant smoothly.

Just after her mother-in-law learned that she was pregnant, she clapped her hands and said: It must be a boy this time. Only then did my friend know her mother-in-law's plan, and then she remembered her husband's lukewarm attitude towards a child, and she was angry. Later, she thought that the child was her own.

As the expected date of delivery approached, her mother-in-law enthusiastically accompanied her to the hospital for a checkup, and directly told the doctor: Although my daughter-in-law is small and thin, the first child was born naturally, and this time it was no problem. Besides, everyone who has experienced it knows that giving birth will hurt for a while. Doctor, please let her give birth naturally.

At that time, a friend couldn't help it, and he didn't want to put up with it any longer. He told the doctor directly: I was petite, and it was really hard to have a baby. When I was the eldest, I was born to death. My body problem and my strength were too small to be born for a day, and I was torn. I don't want this kind of crime to happen again.

and turned to her mother-in-law, saying: You have been saying that I should be more active and have a good baby when I give birth naturally. This time, I want to make one thing clear, that is, I will choose caesarean section this time, and now that I am a second child, I don't know the sex of the baby at present. If I give birth to a girl, I will never have the idea of having another one.

As for the sex of children, I like both boys and girls. Mother-in-law was just on the spot and didn't speak for a while. At this time, the doctor also said: this time it is really not suitable for natural delivery, because the fetal position has not been very positive. After hearing the doctor's diagnosis, her mother-in-law held back what she wanted to say. In this way, my friend chose caesarean section to give birth to a second child.

About the mode of production, pregnant mothers have always struggled from pregnancy to birth, and the mode of production should be suitable for them.

Indeed, natural delivery has many advantages, such as being able to go to the fields in two or three days, not needing stitches, recovering faster after delivery, and having fewer low back pain and itching problems during natural delivery compared with caesarean section, and so on.

However, not all pregnant mothers are suitable for natural delivery. For example, if the fetus is too large, the fetal position is not correct, and the pregnant mother is too petite, it is easy to cause dystocia, so natural delivery is not the best choice.

In addition, pregnant women suffer from some diseases, such as heart disease, and the pelvic width is not enough, so they are not suitable for natural delivery, otherwise their lives will be threatened. In the above situation, caesarean section is a better choice for both mother and baby.

What expectant mothers should do is not to make a choice on the recommendation of others, but to communicate with doctors according to their own situation and finally determine the mode of production suitable for themselves and their babies.