I fell in love with my colleagues at first sight and agreed to divorce. What happened afterwards?

I used to be in an office with my ex-husband. It has been more than a year, and then I got married. We both wanted to stay in the original department, but one of us had to leave, so I left and let him stay. But I still work in a unit and a building.

And then divorced. After the divorce, I still meet occasionally because I work in the unit. It's really embarrassing to see it within a year. The more embarrassing it is at first, the better it will be later. Now that we meet, we will be much calmer. We don't say hello or smile. Just like strangers, we sometimes look at each other to prove that we once knew each other.

It is suggested that in this case, if you divorce, you can have the opportunity to change your job without affecting your quality of life and development prospects. Resignation and job-hopping is a simple and clean way. Because my ex-husband and I are both in the system and are about the same age, it is not easy to find a good way out. And it's even harder for me to start a business with my children now, but I don't rule out the possibility of leaving my job in the future.

It's a little inconvenient, but it's no big deal. The longer it takes, the weaker it gets. If you can, change jobs cleanly. If it's hard, it's nothing.

There is an analysis and statistics that colleagues have the most extramarital affairs. Colleagues can be subdivided into female subordinates and male leaders. I also wrote this article, why I have the most extramarital affairs with male leaders.

These are real case data analysis. If you analyze emotions as big data, there is probably nothing richer than me. Of course, this is just the tip of the iceberg. Most people don't write their own emotional stories, even though they have had many wonderful experiences.

In fact, it is understandable that every day colleagues meet, travel, and build a group together, which is prone to ambiguity. Coupled with emotional fatigue or hormonal attraction in marriage, it is easy to develop a relationship.

But this feeling also has many dangers. The biggest danger is that one day you may want to break it. Especially in those systems, even if you resign, you can't resign, and you have to live on this job.