Why do some people say that the biggest taboo between husband and wife is to wash your dirty linen in public?

This sentence is easy to understand, because only husband and wife know what is going on in a room, then everything can still be covered up and solved. As the saying goes, bedside quarrels often occur between young couples, and the end of the bed is peaceful and can be solved by themselves. Even if it is a big domestic scandal, they will silently endure it for their families or children. If the whole world knows, those two people will be humiliated, and all eyes will be fixed on their behavior, so they will make decisions they regret because of impulse and face.

The communication between husband and wife is self-contained and does not require others to worry too much. This is why young couples don't want to live with their elders for so many years. They are always worried about this and that. There is a little trouble between husband and wife to ask why, which makes the young couple collapse. What is the use of explaining things between husband and wife to outsiders? Just close the door and solve it yourself. Not to mention that elders have no sense of privacy, they will tell their relatives and even neighbors.

There is also a relatively big domestic scandal. For example, if one party has serious family problems such as a third party, couples dare not expose family scandals, because public opinion is so terrible that one person can drown with a mouthful of saliva. When such a thing gets out, two people can't settle down in each other's social circle, and their daily communication and work will be affected. Especially for families with children, such a high-profile scandal is a great harm to innocent children.

So some people say, as the saying goes, all happy families are the same, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. As for what is unhappy, I don't think it is necessary to explore. Give others a space. A family is very fragile, even if it knows something, it will rot in its stomach. This is also the goodwill of modern society!