What happened to the old man who didn't help the baby at home?

In fact, the old lady was helping her daughter with her children at that time, but it turned out that she was really not good at raising children and often quarreled with her grandson. The children don't respect her at all and often scold her.

My sister privately thinks that the old lady is indecent and is afraid that she will lead the children astray. Later, when she gave birth to a son, she asked my mother to take care of her for several years. All the food is for her own use. At the age of four, she was sent to a regular kindergarten and never bothered the old lady.

Later, when her mother-in-law got old, her daughter didn't want to take care of her mother-in-law. She said she was old and in poor health, and even lied that she had cancer. My nephew was innocent and cried at that time. She went home and took out tens of thousands of lucky money she had saved for more than ten years to help her aunt. My sister's brother-in-law knew she was lying when she went to her sister's house to verify. The money has been used to buy her son a car, and my sister scolded her.

Later, the old woman moved to my sister's house, served for more than ten years, and died in her nineties. Before she died, she took my sister and said she was sorry. She said a lot of sweet words and took off the ring and put it on my sister's hand, which moved my sister's family to tears. Later, after the funeral, she realized that the old lady had saved money for many years and sold the house. I don't know when it was all given to her daughter, but she didn't provide for her old children.

It is not necessarily good or bad for the old man not to help with the children. It depends on the emotional intelligence of the elderly, the cultivation of the daughter-in-law, and the ability and status of the son at home.

Sister Jiang, a neighbor, is a pungent person. Since she got married, she has been in charge of family affairs. The two couples worked hard to raise a son and a daughter, and the children worked hard and went to college. My son settled in the provincial capital, and my daughter-in-law is my son's colleague. Sister Jiang knew that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not good, and she didn't intend to help bring up her grandson. She slowly revealed her thoughts to her son, then told her about her physical condition in front of her daughter-in-law, saying that she could not live without her at home, and finally said that even so, she was duty-bound to go as long as the children needed it. The daughter-in-law was born in the same environment as their family, and she knew she was not lying. In addition, her son earns more money than her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law is sensible enough to ask her family to help. If it really doesn't work, hire a nanny. Of course, Sister Jiang often prepares some local products at home and sends them to her son's house. Every time her son comes back, the car is full. Sister Jiang doesn't dance square dance or play mahjong at home, and her daughter-in-law is not picky about anything. Every time a family is together, it is with Mei Mei.

Sister Jiang now says that she should take care of herself and her husband's health, save some money, and try not to cause trouble to her children when she is old. I think this is very good.

I believe that the law is positive. Old people have no obligation to bring their grandchildren. They have worked hard for their families and children all their lives, and they should have their own lives when they are old.

Young parents work too hard. They want to go out into the society and fight hard. They must earn money to support their children and their own lives. To help them. If the old don't help, they will be rejected if they can't walk. Life will definitely be hard.

Both my children were brought up by themselves. Although hard, but there is no trouble, there is no mother-in-law relationship. They meet once or twice a year and say nothing and do nothing. Children don't like going back to their hometown either.

I know a friend whose children were brought up by himself without the help of the elderly.

After his child was born, their parents wanted to help with the child, but their husband and wife disagreed. They thought that children wanted to raise themselves and take care of themselves since childhood, which made their parents super unhappy at that time.

Later, she became a mistress and her daughter-in-law worked outside to earn money. At home, he took the children to cook and became a full-time nanny. Everything about children is done by husband and wife themselves. Life was really hard at first, because only one person went to work.

His daughter-in-law works very hard and her career is in the ascendant, while he takes his children through various training courses. The division of labor between husband and wife is clear and there is basically no contradiction.

Two years ago, his children were admitted to 985 University, and he was liberated. Later, he opened a restaurant near his home and his wife became a company executive. They didn't miss all the moments of his children. Although his parents initially complained that they were not allowed to look after the children, they later came to their senses. The old couple also have time to travel around, and life is full of flavor.

I think my parents have been tired all their lives and should not work any more. But now the old people don't give me a hard time, and there's nothing I can do. It's really impossible Only one person can be full-time and one person can go to work.

As long as the economy allows, it is recommended to take care of the baby yourself. After all, there are still some differences between the old and the young. If the elderly live nearby, it is best to lend a helping hand in time in case of emergency. Bite your teeth if you can't help! Living with the elderly for a long time will also be contradictory. The key is that the husband is useful.

The old man has no obligation to take care of your baby, which is what everyone says, but the fact is that if you don't help him take care of the baby, it may affect the relationship between parents and mother.

If my mother-in-law doesn't help with the baby, I will bring my parents from other cities to help. Now my family of five is very happy, and there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I can still be reunited with my parents. On weekends, the family ate a big meal outside and went abroad for a long vacation. My parents' wishes that I didn't dare to think of before have all come true. The son-in-law appreciates the efforts of her mother-in-law and father-in-law and respects her parents. I just don't want to be too happy.

My mother-in-law in a big city looks down on us foreigners and thinks I admire her son, but she doesn't look at his appearance. The work is not bad, the ability is strong, and she is beautiful, which is more than enough for her son. She thought about whether to help the child hug me, but I didn't expect that I would simply take my parents back from my hometown. Now my parents live in the house bought by my in-laws. They are angry, but what's the use? Their son is unwilling to help them. Who let them embarrass me at first, and then embarrass my son?

For their son, his parents-in-law know better than others, giving up rural fields and real estate to live in a strange city. In all his years of taking care of the baby, he has never been asked to affect the quality of work and life because of the child. On the contrary, his parents-in-law sacrificed their freedom and rest time to take care of his children day and night. The more children grow up, the more sensible and beautiful they are, and the more they feel about their parents-in-law. In-laws became our guests. Children are more intimate with grandparents than with grandparents. They came to my house to see my parents and entertain them during the Chinese New Year holiday. My in-laws were obviously unhappy, but my husband was angry when he played tricks on them. As for this only child, they can't face it. That look is really funny.

Later, when I was getting older, I couldn't do anything bad. Some things are too much for them to need their sons and daughters-in-law. The savings and real estate they used to hold tightly in their hands are not so tight. At this time, it was their turn to look at my face and give the money to their son's real estate to please us, thinking that we could be a backer when they couldn't walk. Again, just one son, waiting for his son and grandson to die.

According to the true story, have you ever seen such a smart wife? The cleverest thing about her is holding her husband. As long as he is on her side, her in-laws can't do anything about her.

This problem should be analyzed from the legal angle, urban angle and rural angle.

Legally speaking, it is legal for in-laws not to take care of their children. Daughter-in-law is not born to in-laws, and it is legal not to raise in-laws. The problem is that the mother-in-law is too old to get out of bed, the son is inconvenient to take care of, and the daughter-in-law doesn't help, so she has to endure or be embarrassed. We should carry forward the fine traditions and help each other.

And colleagues in the city. Old people don't show it to their grandchildren. When they are old, they cannot move. The daughter-in-law is still filial. The family spends money to take care of the elderly in the hospital, but rarely goes back to visit the elderly. Both sides are not so intimate and have not broken the law.

(3) There are rural areas, and I know a few. Old people don't look after their children for a variety of reasons. The old daughter-in-law is driving the old people to live in other places, and the whole village says that the daughter-in-law is unfilial.

Fortunately, most old people in the world feel sorry for their children. People's hearts are all meat. They are good to their daughter-in-law, good to themselves, and bad to their daughter-in-law. Most daughters-in-law will hold grudges until the old man stops watching his jokes.