Why did the royal family of the Han Dynasty not want to marry a Hun woman in history?

Since the pro-Qin system was initiated in the Han Dynasty, many subsequent dynasties have followed the "economic" Xiongnu (this article refers to the nomadic regime in the north). A weak woman can quell the war between the two countries, which shows the position of these women in the minds of Xiongnu men (even if you are the head of one party). This shows how much Xiongnu men like Han women in the Central Plains.

However, there are few records about the emperors of the Central Plains Dynasty (except Yuan Dynasty and Qing Dynasty) in historical materials. They prefer to go far and near, taking Japanese and Korean women as concubines, and rarely taking Xiongnu women as concubines.

Not only the royal family, but also the Han Chinese men in the Central Plains are unwilling to marry Xiongnu women. Why? According to the research of relevant experts, there are the following reasons:

Xiongnu men like Central Plains women because of their innate advantages.

First, women in the Central Plains live in the environment of farming culture. They live in seclusion, not exposed to rain and sun, just like flowers in a greenhouse, with beautiful faces. Secondly, women in the Central Plains grew up under the influence of feudal ethical culture. They are knowledgeable, considerate, obedient to men and full of femininity. Third, the Central Plains has advanced culture and technology. When they married a woman from the Central Plains, they married a scientific consultant. Some "three virtues" are bound to be sought after by Xiongnu men.

On the other hand, Xiongnu women do not have this advantage.

First, forced by life, she lived a nomadic life with no fixed place and suffered from the wind and the sun. Her skin is definitely not as delicate as a woman in the Central Plains. Because she lives on horseback, a naive girl, not as strong as a Han woman, lost a little on her face value first.

Secondly, the marriage culture in the Central Plains pays attention to family background, social status, education level and so on. Only equality can make us in-laws. Located so far away from the Huns, most people have never heard of it, let alone understood it. People who don't know the roots are unwilling to risk getting married.

Third, and most importantly, cultural incompatibility, Central Plains men want to marry women with excellent qualities such as "three obedience and four virtues", while Xiongnu women, as nomadic people, are not subject to these constraints and grow up in a free range, because they are not informal, which alone does not meet the marriage standards of Central Plains men. If any "fenqing" dares to marry foreign women rashly, he will not be laughed at by the villagers.